Is it normal i want to get in a fight with my bf

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Hear me out, this is kind of a fantasy of mine. I don't

actually have a BF right now, but my last was almost the

exact same size as me. I think it would have been fun to

get in a physical fight with him, but not out of anger, and

no "fighting dirty". Just sort of break out into some

controlled mma type stuff while having an argument

and working it out by then end by beating each other fairly

(again, I don't mean like domestic violence just fun way to

relieve frustration).

I often fantasize about being a man myself, so it probably

has something to do with that. Whenever I've seen in movies

2 guy friends get into a fight and then end up beating each

other up and become friends again afterwards. I know that's

highly unrealistic but like I said it's just a fantasy to get

in an (evenly matched, clean, not domestic violence)

physical fight with a bf.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Can a physical

    Fight ever be

    Not violent?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Yes look at controlled MMA fights, that's what I'm talking about. Also idk why it posted like that. I had to copy and paste from notepad since it wasn't posting before, and cba to fix it

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      • Boojum
        5 years ago

        Wordpad → Format → Word Wrap ✔

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Oh okay well seems normal to me if it’s not like to far to the point of hurting each other. I don’t fight my boyfriend but if I ever try I feel he doesn’t always know how strong he is. Another thing it may not always be the easiest to be gentle if things get to heated but if it can stay controlled sure why not.

        This probably isn’t the same but sometimes my boyfriend will try and say something to get me mad where it’s not a legit reason to piss me off but I’ll like fake fight him and attack him but without actually hurting him. But sometimes I’ll say something smart to him to try and start shit then he’ll look at me with this face where ik he’ll start chasing me so I’ll run and when he catches me he’ll tickle me which I hate. So sometimes we’ll attack each other in a fake way I don’t see anything wrong with it. If it’s actually painfully fighting each other that may be a lil different.

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  • LornaMae
    5 years ago

    I think Jiu-Jitsu is your solution. Start practicing and you will likely find that boyfriend you're dreaming of because it's mainly guys who practice the sport. There's so much hot grabbin' when they're at it!! You're welcome.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Lol ive taken jiu jitsu before but it was a pretty small class. there was 1 cute guy in there, and the teacher was a pretty cool but older guy

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      • LornaMae
        5 years ago

        I know a group of about 15 guys who fight here and they are all so so HOT!! And there's just one girl in the group.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          Hmm, i wonder how she looks? ;)

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          • LornaMae
            5 years ago

            Uh? What do you mean?

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  • aidonger
    5 years ago

    I think that the idea isnt traditional but you are not an outcast for wanting to deal with an argument with a significant other through safe physical fighting.

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  • Meowypowers
    5 years ago

    You already forgot the first rule! Seriously though join a boxing or mma gym, it is unhealthy to get violent with your singificant other.

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  • megadriver
    5 years ago

    Nothing says relationship, like beating the shit out of each other... If you want to fight people so bad, go boxing... You get to fight people and then make aggressive love to your man. It's a win-win.

    I've done a bit of boxing when I was 16 and I would never like to fight my girlfriend. I love her and I want to show her my love and that I care... Punching isn't the best way to show my affection... Neither is yours.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Basically it would just be like playing sports together but the sport is boxing / fighting. In my fantasy of it, we would still love each other and be careful not to seriously hurt each other. We would be the same size / strength (I'm fairly tall for a girl and I work out but it's ok if he's a little stronger I like the challenge)

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  • Zetta_2000
    5 years ago

    Tell him your fantasy, don't try to push him to do it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    You type like you're running out of breath before you can finish your sentences.

    Anyway, I think you're normal.

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    Just dominate h him totally!! You are a superior female and you should lead in the relationship!!

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  • brutus
    5 years ago

    Not normal

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