Is it normal i want to do this for a boyfriend?

I have had multiple dreams the past couple months about having a boyfriend who is a gamer. In the dream he is playing COD, and he's talking to people and shit. He asks me to make him a sandwich and so I do. I bring it to him while he's playing, and then I hear all his friends online like, "blah blah you're so lucky you have a gf who will do that"
and then he finishes playing and we have sex, and then I wake up.

I have a boyfriend, but he's not a gamer, but this dream made me realize how much I want that exact scenario...I mean I don't play video games, and I don't know many people who do...
Is it normal for dreams to affect your personal decisions so much? I want to break up with him, I want this dream scene so badly
Am I fucking ridiculous...or?

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  • (s)aint

    You sound like any gamers dream. BUT take this advice from someone who has had the "luck" of only finding gamers. Gamers that has been able to game with moderation, but nonetheless gamers.

    Your scenario lasts like 10 minutes, but sometimes he would want to game for several hours and what would you do while he spends that time playing videogames?

    Sure, sometimes I enjoy to distract him while he play by sucking his penis or sitting on his lap but most of the times I would actually have preferred to be with a non-gamer.

    Now that I am in love with my THIRD gamer I would not trade him for a non-gamer but I still think that maybe you have not thought about this enough.

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  • sam20118

    I don't know the state of your current relationship, but the dream you've described sounds like a desire to be better appreciated. More than that, to be publicly appreciated. Specificly, though not to be rude, bragged about. That is a totally normal way to feel. Everyone wants to be wanted, but I don't think dating a gamer specifcally will improve your situation. My advice is to reflect on your current relastionship, and try to identify why you would be so influenced by such a dream. Try to identify your needs and desires, and then determine whether or not they are being met. Relationships are a two way road, so if you don't like the relationship has what you need from it then you should end it. You might even try identifying your partner's needs and desires, and think about whether you are meeting them. Above all else, you should talk to your partner about the matter, and whatever revelations you come to by thinking about the matter. I know you probably want a more natural case of appreciation (as your dream suggests you also want the situation to be spontaneous, and unprovoked), but by talking about it you let your partner know that he should let you know about his feelings more often, as he may be highly appreciative but unaware that you want a clearer show of said appreciation.

    Hope this helps.

    Sam

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    • CountessDouche

      Wow. Good advice.

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    • SpencerDiLaurenta

      Thank you so much!

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  • Freedom_

    I suggest a DDR gamer. They will need lots of sandwiches.

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  • RainbowDischarge

    I like feeding my man when hes playing videogames and unable to use his hands to feed himself. Its oddly cute and now I wanna do him. Idk. Maybe you could just do this as a roleplay thing before fucking.

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    And then you end up with a gamer who ends up neglecting you for hours on end since he's too busy playing COD.

    Why don't you just play some video games with your boyfriend instead? Don't have to look for a gamer. If you really want one, convert him. Just make sure he doesn't become an addict.

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  • Wolfeye

    Would you consider becoming a gamer yourself to entice him into playing as well? It could become something you do as a couple. It would be a healthier approach than breaking up with him and seeking someone based primarily on his status as a gamer.

    As an aside, I don't recommend dating a gamer, being that I was one myself. Gaming is so addictive that we will spend hours, even all day and half the night, eating junk and gaming. It also has a very bad effect on social skills. If you crave a scenario involving a gamer, do try to make it happen in a way that's not imbalanced; you'll be happier dating a well-rounded person.

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  • Caroline_23

    But why don't you just talk about it with your boyfriend and see if he wants to do that, or if he wants to become a gamer so you wont break up with him and still have your dream come true.. I don't know.

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  • Avant-Garde

    If you get a man who loves to play video games, don't try to change him.

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  • Cats_Rule

    Why do this if you want to break up with him? Break up with the guy and go out with a gamer.

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    • Thewomanizer

      Just what I said above ^

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    • SpencerDiLaurenta

      Because I didn't want to break up with him before the dreams, like I was happy.
      But once I started having them, I couldn't stop thinking about it.
      So I don't know if I should break up with him, just because I want a scenario I had in a dream...
      I want to, but it seems...immature? idk

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  • Thewomanizer

    Weird dream but it can be normal for certain dreams to affect our decisions esp if they are desires in reality…Why do u want to do this so badly though if ur wanting to break up with him ?

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    • SpencerDiLaurenta

      I mean, I didn't want to break up with him before I had the dreams...
      but now, idk
      I just want that one scenario so badly, that I want to break up with him to have it.
      which i think might be super irrational...

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      • Thewomanizer

        Well i think its a bit irrational as if you really want your desire acted out then dumping him aint going to help is it? Unless of course then u will go and seek a gamer but then again seems like the dream is a bit of a role play. So why dont u just get him to play xbox etc?

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        • SpencerDiLaurenta

          Thank you!

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          • Thewomanizer

            Welcome:)

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