Is it normal i want to confront the man who abused me?

From the age of about 13 to the age of 16, I was groomed by a man who was 24 when we first met. He would promise me a whole bunch of things: money, clothes, shoes, make up, love, a house, a life together etc. He told me my family don't love me if they couldn't accept our love and that we should run away when I turned 16. He made me believe it was a good idea to send pictures of myself naked and performing sexual acts because 'he loved me'. We never actually had sex, but we did mutual masturbation.
Last time I heard from him I was 17 when he texted me (no clue how he got the number I was using) and told me he could see me. I was waiting for a train, alone, late at night and was so scared I had a panic attack right there.
He pops up in my head every once in a while. But tonight I discovered the messenger on my hotmail account and he's still in there, and apparently online. And I suddenly find myself crying. I'm not sad over what happened. I'm angry because he's a prick. I'm not sure what confronting him will even do. I doubt it would benefit me in any way whatsoever. I kinda want to know why he did it, and has he/currently doing it to another young girl. But I'd doubt I'd even get an answer.
is it normal I want to confront him about it? Even though it would most probably cause more harm than good.

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71% Normal
Based on 14 votes (10 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • RoseIsabella

    Call the police and ask them what to do!

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  • HollywoodHulkHogan

    Ask yourself this brother! what would the hulkster do?! I'll tell what the hulkster would do brother! the hulkster would pin that nancy boy for the 1.. 2...3! now how do you like that?!

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  • It's normal to want to confront him, but it won't do any good. He obviously isn't going to sympathize with you. If you want to get back at him, report him. Otherwise let it go or get somebody to kick his ass, but confronting him by telling him how he hurt you will do nothing. He may even get satisfaction that you are still bothered by it.

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  • golden_showers

    you really oughtta report this. It's possible in order to prosecute him you'll need to talk him into meeting you and admitting what he's done. He needs to get taken off the street! He's likely victimizing other girls too. Do it to save them if not for yourself.

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  • alextsang08

    Get rekt

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    It's your way of trying to achieve closure.

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