Is it normal i want to become bea arthur from the golden girls?

I plan on living a traditional life, wife and kids in the suburbs, family reunions, birthday parties, church etc... But after the kids are 18 and grown want to spice things up and become the awesome role-model and grand mama our family has always wanted. I already have all the outfits planned, like wigs and hair dye, and fresh granny smith biscuits! ooh its going to be very exciting! We'll have morning tea at sunrise, and mango tea with cheesecake after dinner. I hope to serve a varying array of on-trays throughout the week so all the girls are impressed. I'll have most of my girlfriends around the house to discuss topics so hopefully the wife won't mind. I already bought a wig and a cute outfit so she can pretend to be sofia (the mother) we can act like we are in our own little play but it would become our lives. I do worry that maybe my girlfriend may freak out at me if I tell her about my vision of how our empty nest years should be. Is my vision normal? i have alot of friends who want turn into maggie smith once they hit their 50s but i think that's absurd.