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I get tired of people talking to me about their family as if it's the only important thing in the world. It makes others feel they have no value at all. A good example is when people start out "I have kids..." Does anyone else feel this way?
May I assume from your phrasing that you don't yet have children of your own?
From a societal point of view it would generally be considered outside of the norm to feel zero interest in conversations regarding the raising of children.
Anger or resentment towards these topics could be symptomatic of unresolved emotions regarding one's own childhood, failed relationships, perhaps also one's experiences in attempting or failing at starting a family.
There could also be underlying anxiety at work due to fear of emotional closeness, attachment, making oneself vulnerable by opening up emotionally regarding such topics. It is quite common to have these thoughts and fears.
Living with, repressing or being held back by such emotions, whilst not seeking assistance or support in resolving them, is considered unhealthy.
I find it annoying when people drone on about their kids too much. But it sounds like you're annoyed at the mere mention of family. That's not normal. Maybe you should speak to a therapist.
Are there undealt with feelings from you and your own family? This could be a reason why you feel this way
Because family is the most important thing in the world to normal people. You can tune it out, but dont resent people for having a family.
Yes mate, I do feel this way sometimes. It is very normal. Don't judge them or be rude, just understand that to them having a family and or kids is a great thing to live for. If that's not your peace of cake, it's fine, it's not mine either. Different things float different people's boats. Just don't judge them and let them enjoy what makes them happy and you do what makes you happy.