Is it normal i told him this to avoid a date?

Wow. Sounds like he dodged a bullet.

grow a fuckin pair and say no

(in his mind) You turned down coffee, not a date.

You should have shit in his mouth. men are disgusting!

Maybe that turned him on.

If not interested in someone just be honest

When a simple "No thank you" would've been suffice.

At least he had the balls to ask u out I' puss out asking ppl out n I wouldn't say I'm a nerd either eccept maybe in a cute way ;) so give him sum credic