Hey!
I'm mixed race and I feel very similar about SOME white men... I think American culture because of slave history is still somewhat hostile to interracial couples and most people don't want to deal with the baggage (the stares, the snubs, etc...). But I look at my skin color as a blessing... If a man doesn't want to be with me b/c I'm darker than him, then that guy is not the kind of guy I would want to be with anyway. Even if I was white (and therefore dating him), I think those kinds of people would show their weakness and negativity anyway... For example, maybe after we started dating seriously, I got fat or got into an accident and was disabled or lost my home and became homeless...etc...etc... Do you think that kind of guy would stick around (even if I was white)? My bet is on no. So, forget about them! Also, there are some wonderful white guys (and guys of other skin colors) who won't care about your color and love you for you! I've dated some! So, good luck! Hope you find love...wherever he is and whatever he looks like! :)
IIN I think white guys aren't too eager to date a colored girl?
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Hey!
I'm mixed race and I feel very similar about SOME white men... I think American culture because of slave history is still somewhat hostile to interracial couples and most people don't want to deal with the baggage (the stares, the snubs, etc...). But I look at my skin color as a blessing... If a man doesn't want to be with me b/c I'm darker than him, then that guy is not the kind of guy I would want to be with anyway. Even if I was white (and therefore dating him), I think those kinds of people would show their weakness and negativity anyway... For example, maybe after we started dating seriously, I got fat or got into an accident and was disabled or lost my home and became homeless...etc...etc... Do you think that kind of guy would stick around (even if I was white)? My bet is on no. So, forget about them! Also, there are some wonderful white guys (and guys of other skin colors) who won't care about your color and love you for you! I've dated some! So, good luck! Hope you find love...wherever he is and whatever he looks like! :)