Thanks for this great, long explanation :) Thing is, I do try and put myself out there with some people I'm keen to get to know. I often try with failed efforts. How can I be there for someone who doesn't even let me be there for them? If you know what I mean. In most cases its me getting in touch with someone, asking how they are, it's me inviting someone to hang out e.c.t. I don't have them wanting to get to know me or wanting to hang out from time to time or messaging to see how I'm doing. I start to care/ show an interest and it fails. I feel hurt because I'd do anything for someone I care about. I like to be there but I can't be there if no one talks or tells me their problems. Only people that want to hang out are guys which I almost always decline as I know they're just after sex. The girls on the other hand, don't seem the slightest bit interested in establishing anything :/ Its just lame.
IIN I think the older you get, the harder it is to make friends?
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Thanks for this great, long explanation :) Thing is, I do try and put myself out there with some people I'm keen to get to know. I often try with failed efforts. How can I be there for someone who doesn't even let me be there for them? If you know what I mean. In most cases its me getting in touch with someone, asking how they are, it's me inviting someone to hang out e.c.t. I don't have them wanting to get to know me or wanting to hang out from time to time or messaging to see how I'm doing. I start to care/ show an interest and it fails. I feel hurt because I'd do anything for someone I care about. I like to be there but I can't be there if no one talks or tells me their problems. Only people that want to hang out are guys which I almost always decline as I know they're just after sex. The girls on the other hand, don't seem the slightest bit interested in establishing anything :/ Its just lame.