Is it normal i think of women going down on me, but i don't like vaginas

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I consider myself heterosexual (or heteroromantic- I'm a demisexual), until I've been thinking about this...

I get off on the thought of a woman going down on me. The only thing is, I don't like vaginas. I don't know what it is, but other women's vaginas don't really appeal to me. I don't want my mouth near it but I wouldn't mind vulva-to-vulva contact or fingering (but I will get picky about them). I've never been romantically attracted to a woman, and I don't feel anything when kissing them (it was spin the bottle at a friend's house- I wasn't really curious). Is this under any kind of sexual orientation I haven' heard of? The I-don't-mind-women-going-down-on-me-but-I-don't-like-vaginas thing? (This is probably unrelated, since I know a lot of heterosexual women watch lesbian pornography, but I also get turned on by solo women in pornography squirting.)

I agree with the "we don't have to label ourselves" but I'm still curious if this falls under something.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Bisexual vaginaphobe, if that's even a real word.

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    • KokoroComplex
      11 years ago

      I'm not romantically attracted to them. I also forgot to mention that I don't get sexually attracted to them- I never met a woman and thought I wanted to sleep with her. But if it happened for some reason, I wouldn't complain. Heteroflexiable? I don't know.

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  • BurnaBaby27
    11 years ago

    I know what you mean, I'm like that too. Except I do sometimes feel like I want to go down on a female, but she'd have to be like..my clone. Just like me because I don't trust any other woman's vagina. But I am not sexually attracted to females, although I get aroused by lesbian porn. Quite complicated.

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    • KokoroComplex
      11 years ago

      I would be thinking, "uhh, I don't want that vagina near me". I just find vaginas appalling. It's just something about how they look and the discharge that I don't get how some find them appealing.

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      • BurnaBaby27
        11 years ago

        I know what you mean. I would never want another vagina near me, so I think my "fantasy" of going down on another girl will never happen. I can only imagine myself wanting to go down on..well..myself. A bit conceited, but I trust my vagina because it's clean and healthy and I've known it for over twenty years. I know everything that's been in it and I know everything that comes out of it. It's clean, it smells nice and tastes good. I would be extremely hesitant and even disgusted attempting to go down on another female..even though I kind of want to..I don't know. I could never bring myself to do it.

        I also think some of them are pretty weird looking, but most of the ones I've seen (porn) don't gross me out.

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        • KokoroComplex
          11 years ago

          Oh, I forgot to add this- I only imagine it would feel good when I'm aroused. If I'm not, like right now, I'm like no.

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          • BurnaBaby27
            11 years ago

            Agreed. I just thought about it and became extremely uncomfortable, being that I'm not aroused.

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  • dameda
    9 years ago

    How is that even remotely close to being bi? You persons even know what that means?

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  • violent-failure
    11 years ago

    i was for a while. i don't know about sexuality, but it is possible you just aren't completely mature yet. i grew more into vaginas as i mature more, just give it a while (don't go saying you're bi- this or homo- that yet, it could end up being really embarrasing)

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    • KokoroComplex
      10 years ago

      So, I came to the conclusion that I'm heteroflexible. I have a primary heterosexual attraction- physically and romantically, but I am open with homoerotic experiences. It's just, I don't see myself romantically attracted to a woman and I don't think I ever will. But, the thought of a woman going down on me turns me on. I just don't like vaginas :/.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    It could be that you are Bi-curious and you have a phobia of female genitalia.

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    • KokoroComplex
      11 years ago

      Oh, I forgot to add this- I only imagine it when I'm aroused. If I'm not, I'm like no. So, bi-curious when I'm aroused, lol?

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Might be you're a pillow princess? other than that I'd say that curious fits you best lol

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    • KokoroComplex
      11 years ago

      Yeah, but the thing is, I don't see myself with a woman romantically. And on top of that, I really don't like vaginas. I don't know about curious...

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      • quentari
        11 years ago

        Well then I don't really know a label that would fit you. Curious still seems right, even if you're only curious about receiving and not giving lol

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        • KokoroComplex
          11 years ago

          Oh, I forgot to add this- I only imagine it when I'm aroused. If I'm not, I'm like no.

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