Is it normal i think most fat people are to blame for their obesity?

People always look for a scapegoat for their problems.

You are 100% right. I'm a fatty myself, and I think it's absolutely pathetic that people don't realize it's bad thing, and try and change it. A lot of them even try and say it's beautiful and all that bullshit.

I'm interested in asking you something. Technically, aside from extreme conditions, isn't it pretty much always the fault of the person, sure they might a slower metabolism etc, but it's a physical impossibility to put on weight (store energy) without taking in calories? That's the science right? You can't create energy out of nothing?

This is true, but please remember that a lot of fat people are eating when they aren't even hungry. It's wrapped up in a lot of emotional stuff, so as a future doctor I hope that you're sensitive to that, just as you'd be sensitive to a suicidal teenager or an anorexic person. Mental health issues need care too.

Dr. Now on my 600 lb. life- "Calories in, calories out."

Weight loss itself is very simple. It's impossible for a body to sustain a weight, especially a high one, unless it's given the food to do so.

Even people with Prader-Willi, who actually have to eat fewer calories than healthy people, can be fit if they don't overeat.

Some people are in willful denial, because then they'd have to face the music, and put down the burger.

I have an efficient metabolism and was raised to not consider fat as attractive.
I eat the calories I burn.
I don't eat from boredom, depression, couch potato stuff, good tasting foods, excuses like
' it's thanksgiving'
Or peer pressure.
Fat is a choice.
I choose to not be fat.

I agree.

Yes, some people are fat due to special reasons (I have a friend with this condition), but most aren't.

I see what you are saying

I agree a lot try and blame it on something when in reality they refuse to accept their issues and bad habits. But you can’t speak for all because you don’t always know everyones situation and although it’s not super common medical issues effect weigh problems it’s still out there and an issue. I have a high or fast whatever it’s called motabolism (idk if that’s necessarily a disease but it still effects me) and am always a constant 113 I can’t gain or lose easy what so ever but luckily I’ve always been where I’m suppost to be I’m not super skinny but I’m not chubby either. I’m happy where I’m at and always been but it takes some hard work to try and change my weight so although I don’t have some serious medical issue about me you never know someones story I’ve been stuck at this weight for about 5 years and before that 108lbs for the longest time. I can’t help being skinny. So idk if most fat people are to blame for eating that’s probably the problem, but you just never know. I kinda wish I could control mine better but on the bright side me not losing means the fat stays in the right areas. It’s easy to think it’s their own habits causing the problem so I’m going to say normal to think that. Cause I’m sure most times that’s the thing but just not always. It can sometimes be the simplest thing causing complications. Doesn’t genes come into play with this as well?