Is it normal i think incels / women haters are mainly just attention seekers?

They can’t get women’s (or men’s) attention in reality so they make up ridiculous ideologies and posts about how much they hate women, because they know people will reply and even negative attention is better to them than none at all.

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  • And before people can cry “what about the other side?!” I think man haters are a slightly different breed, they are making up for feeling weak by attacking what they consider to be stronger (same idea behind white-hating racists). I’m sure some woman haters do that as well since sensationalist media and other keyboard warriors are trying to convince them that men are now the weaker sex (socially speaking), under attack and victimized by the first world.

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  • IrishPotato

    I made a huge post about this a while ago. Loads of comments, might be a good read if you want?

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    • Seems familiar, i may have even commented on it, but memory’s not the best.

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      • IrishPotato

        Fun topic, really.

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  • leggs91200

    I think the main reason is serious frustration. Sure they want attention but that is not the main problem.

    They want affection, to get laid, and all that but have no clue how to go about it.

    One thing I imagine pretty much all of them have in common is that they have never had kids. Once that happens, you being to realize that good or bad, sex causes children and all the bullshit that comes with them.

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    • RoseIsabella

      They probably make awful parents.

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      • Ellenna

        Yeah, especially of daughters and let's hope their sons don't use them as role models

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        • I saw a post awhile back by an incel who said that having a daughter is the ultimate form of getting “cucked” because he would be financially responsible for her as his child, and then she would end up with another man once she starts dating. I can only hope that was a troll, but the level of mental illness doesn’t seem that far off.

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          • Boojum

            Wow. I suspect he wasn't joking, since that comment suggests an underlying transactional view of life that's consistent with the incel movement: if I do X for you, you must do Y for me. If I ask you politely if we can have dinner, you are obliged to accept. If I make nice during dinner and pay for it, you must agree to give me sex. If I support a daughter through her childhood, she must remain at my beck and call forever.

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          • leggs91200

            The non-custodial parent does have to help pay for the kid.
            Well I suppose in truth, both parents are equally responsible for their kids whether the parents are together or not. Not an easy responsibility.

            I am guessing whoever posted that thread probably does not have kids but is worrying or at least making a fuss over problems that do not even exist in his own life?

            I just hoe these so-called "incels" understand that once a child arrives, it isn't about "getting laid" anymore.

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        • RoseIsabella

          Most definitely.

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  • Boojum

    In the old days, they'd just be the socially awkward people that everyone either bullied or ignored. Eventually they'd marry some distant cousin because that was the best they could do, and they'd probably find some degree of satisfaction in life.

    The echo-chamber effect of social media normalises the views of the most bitter and vocal. It's far easier to blame others and some vast, vague conspiracy for all your problems rather than trying to sort yourself out.

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    • Meowypowers

      Actually in the old days, they would just not procreate. Superior men would knock up all women, and inferior men would just die virgins. In today's society even bad gene men have a shot. I have been in some weddings where the groom is no kind of nothing lol.

      If a guy is an incel he deserves and needs to be that. So many opportunities for men to get laid that didn't exist ever before.

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    • 309uf2o38yf

      Bubba J comes to mind.

      "I been watchin Nascar and drinkin beeeer."

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  • Ellenna

    I find it interesting that all these incels are male: women would have too much sense than to build a movement on the basis of not being able to get laid.

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    • IrishPotato

      Just a tad sexist.

      Just a tad.

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      • Ellenna

        Maybe a tiny tiny minute tad sexist, but I reckon a valid observation all the same. Would it be sexist to say that men start more wars than women do? I could go on, but I won't.

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    • 309uf2o38yf

      They don't believe females can be "incel". They think anyone with a vagina can get laid any time they want.

      Dunno where they got it from, though. Just because they're desperate enough to bang a hole in a tree trunk doesn't mean every guy would.

      Interestingly, the term "incel" was invented by a woman. The male nerds took over her website and kicked out all the girls. Girls aren't allowed to be involuntarily celibate anymore, according to them. 😂😂😂

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  • Zangyr

    A lot of them are just bored.

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  • megadriver

    I kinda wish I was born in the 50s... Then in my youth there would be no incels, no idiots that complain how all women are shit and they can't get a date... No bro, women aren't shit, you're shit, cause you can't get one...

    Back then incels would simply be bullied and insulted by normal men and they would die virgins... Now tho, with the safety of hiding behind a screen, they can be as obnoxious and as loud as they want, without fear of getting beat up.

    Women want a man by their side, not a wimpy, scummy beta cuck. Bet if an incel ever got a woman, he'd dream of his neighbor fucking his wife... Also getting a woman is easy. Requires a bit of money, a bit of lying, making yourself appear greater than you really are and being a bit of a douchebag and getting her in the right mood. Finding wife material is a bit harder XD

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  • SmokeEverything

    This is a really bad website for advice on incel issues because most of everyone on here has frequent unprotected sex on a constant basis with all kinds of stuff. You're talking to people who for the most part are into stuff the legal system can't understand. If you have that much trouble getting laid go find a hole in a rotten log or a pumpkin or something and grow the fuck up.

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