Is it normal i think i'm starting to like him?

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I mean. Gosh idk. So at my work hes a customer.. he comes in at least once a week. Hes very kind and I really like his voice. Since he comes in alot I've starting giving him a discount (idk if hes noticed if you look at the reciet you can see). I always find time to keep an eye and when hes done ask if he wants me to deal with his food tray. Today he stayed for a few hours it seems but I just avoided after he said no thank you for taking his food tray to deal with it...is it normal? Am I just weird? I kinda feel bad cuz he's a customer but I dont really try to go out of my way for other customers which is odd for me

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GaelicPotato

4 years ago

Ask him out, girl!

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  4 years ago
  
  He showed up I gave my number. He has a gf but he would of said yes to dating me tbh OMFG MY HEART WHEN FUCK
  
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MrToxic

4 years ago

There's nothing wrong having feelings for a customer. It sounds like you work in the fast-food industry? This guy clearly is on your mind a lot. It's important you make your feelings known to him, otherwise you'll spend countless days wondering. Perhaps write your number on the receipt next time and point out that it's there if he's interested in getting to know one another. Life's too short to spend your days wondering

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Yes I work in a fast food. The thing is if I do try that. I feel like I might just embarrass myself..maybe I'll just give him my number next time I take his tray. Then the thought comes in as if he finds it weird he wont come back? Idk ugh
  
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  - Nikclaire
    
    4 years ago
    
    I wouldn't worry about being embarrassed. Embarrassment lasts what, a few hours? The upside is much greater than any downside.
    
    Go for it!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Thank you I think I will next time
      
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      - Nikclaire
        
        4 years ago
        
        Cool. Let us know how it goes.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        Been 3 weeks and haven't seen him since this post...LOVELY
        
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  - bigbudchonga
    
    4 years ago
    
    Do it, give him your number!
    
    I really hope this works out, please reply to one of my comments with the outcome if you go for it.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      He showed up I gave my number. He has a gf but he would of said yes to dating me tbh OMFG MY HEART WHEN FUCK
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Been 3 weeks and haven't seen him since this post...LOVELY
      
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      - bigbudchonga
        
        4 years ago
        
        Ahh :( hopefully he will come by soon
        
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  - litelander8
    
    4 years ago
    
    I also work in the food industry. It happens ALL THE TIME. I agree you should go for it!
    
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      4 years ago
      
      He showed up I gave my number. He has a gf but he would of said yes to dating me tbh OMFG MY HEART WHEN FUCK
      
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      - litelander8
        
        4 years ago
        
        At least you know for next time to fucking go for it! Cheers babe! ☺️
        
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Thank you I think I will next time
      
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      - PleaseTalkToMe
        
        4 years ago
        
        I'm gonna do this with a gal and I'm 25f
        
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Rooktorn

4 years ago

That's pretty normal, just ask before you get too nervous about it.

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d0esnormalmatter

4 years ago

Someone at my work got fired for giving out discounts like that. I would be careful about that but other than that I agree that you should ask this mf out

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  He showed up I gave my number. He has a gf but he would of said yes to dating me tbh OMFG MY HEART WHEN FUCK
  
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  - d0esnormalmatter
    
    4 years ago
    
    So hes a cheating dirt bag. And so are you if you date him. Smh people nowadays.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Wtf I never said I was going to date him you fucking dumbass since he I'd taken....learn to fucking read. I have self respect
      
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      - d0esnormalmatter
        
        4 years ago
        
        Exchanging numbers is a form of cheating in this case. His gf would most likely not approve.
        
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        4 years ago
        
        Yeah okay.
        
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- MissWolf
  
  4 years ago
  
  Honestly idgaf I'm planning on searching for a new job cuz my manager
  
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  - d0esnormalmatter
    
    4 years ago
    
    Still would be bad on your record though wouldn't it? If you think you won't get caught or the risk is worth it that's fine.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      I mean my work is pretty chill so it would be fine. It's only once a week for 1 customer anyways. Others give it out more then i
      
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cupcake_wants

4 years ago

Check his finger. Wedding ring? If not, good sign. Are you shy to chat with him? If you can do that, would be good. You could say you got a gift certificate for some restaurant and you don't have anybody to go with you and if he wants to go with you? Would THAT be possible?

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  - cupcake_wants
    
    4 years ago
    
    Oh damn! If they got a gf, don't try to date 'em anyway. Too bad!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Dont worry I'm not
      
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  4 years ago
  
  I'll check but I never noticed a ring. And I know people who are married and dont wear a ring. I'll have to think how I'm pretty shy..I'll probably just give him my number
  
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  - cupcake_wants
    
    4 years ago
    
    Ok, well good luck, and let us know what happens!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Been 3 weeks and haven't seen him since this post...LOVELY
      
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      - cupcake_wants
        
        4 years ago
        
        He must have stopped being a regular customer then?
        
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        4 years ago
        
        I guess so
        
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MrMercury24

4 years ago

Go for it!!!!

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bigbudchonga

4 years ago

Awwwwh, good luck op!

I would just ask him out, but if you can't do that then just try and be really really obvious. When there's a right moment twiddle your hair or whatever and ask if he's got a girlfriend. Then when/if he says no, say "I'm single too", and do stuff like that.

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  - bigbudchonga
    
    4 years ago
    
    Dw, OP, you went out and did it, and I wouldn't be surprised if he kept your number and will give you a ring if he splits up with his gf
    
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