I understand your point, but I wouldn't resent your parents for it. They didn't intend any harm, and they wouldn't have had you if they'd have known you would've been against it. And they love you, so resenting them wouldn't do anyone any good.
Even though you didn't choose to be born, you're here now and just need to make the best of it. I think the worst thing you're doing right now, that could possibly justify saying you don't deserve life, is being that hard on yourself. If you want to feel like you've earned life, then start working on being kinder to yourself.
It’s something I consider though as a potential future parent. My girlfriend wants kids but I think bringing someone into this world where it’s headed is an act of cruelty and selfishness, plus I’m only adding to the overpopulation problem
Fair enough, I wouldn't have kids either for that reason. Or if I did have kids, then I'd adopt. I hope you do work on being kinder to yourself though.
IIN I sometimes resent my parents for having me?
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I understand your point, but I wouldn't resent your parents for it. They didn't intend any harm, and they wouldn't have had you if they'd have known you would've been against it. And they love you, so resenting them wouldn't do anyone any good.
Even though you didn't choose to be born, you're here now and just need to make the best of it. I think the worst thing you're doing right now, that could possibly justify saying you don't deserve life, is being that hard on yourself. If you want to feel like you've earned life, then start working on being kinder to yourself.
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It’s something I consider though as a potential future parent. My girlfriend wants kids but I think bringing someone into this world where it’s headed is an act of cruelty and selfishness, plus I’m only adding to the overpopulation problem
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Fair enough, I wouldn't have kids either for that reason. Or if I did have kids, then I'd adopt. I hope you do work on being kinder to yourself though.