Is it normal i really love having my hair messed with?
I absolutely love having my hair played with, combed and brushed (as long as whoever is doing it isn't rough and doesn't rip it out), and when people run their fingers through it. I also love getting my hair cut. One of my favorite things in the world is letting my best friend comb/brush my hair. I could sit there and enjoy it all day.
There are a few things I don't like though. I don't like having it washed by someone else or having it tightly braided or intricately styled, like with a curling iron or a bunch of product and a lot of tugging. I only like gentle touches, and I hate the feeling of hair spray or other products. I also don't like those head massager things with the prongs. That and the motion people use to wash hair are a sensory overload for me, it almost tickles.