Is it normal i prefer to sleep bc my dreams are better than my reality?

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I just turned 39 and I'm pretty much stuck in a sexless blah marriage. I still have the mindset of a college kid and the hormones of a high school teen. With that said, I'm not unlike most men as I really like younger women. So, almost every night I have very vivid dreams usually involving me being in high school again but at my actual age and I'm always hooking up with either blasts from the past or some made up female in my imagination. I enjoy it so much that I want to sleep all the time. Is that normal?

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  • Scoodydoot
    6 years ago

    I think what you're experiencing is maladaptive daydreaming. Its a symptom of having multiple mental disorders. You should google it.

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    • thenatureboy5253
      6 years ago

      Okay, I just read into it & although I find it extremely interesting I have to say that's not what I have going on. However, strangely enough, it's similar. The condition you listed is literally people phasing out into LaLa Land basically creating their own fantasy. On the other hand, I'm literally sleeping and dreaming...and, honestly it's not always good or positive...referring to my dreams. Then again, most of the time they are AND, almost 100% deal with me being in high school again or at least in a high school setting. Perhaps I'm just having a damn midlife crisis.

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    • thenatureboy5253
      6 years ago

      I'll certainly be sure to Google it, but just an immediate response, if I may...how is it "day dreaming" if it's typically while I'm sleeping hard and usually overnight???

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    as the female ages her hormones fail and she becomes a non fertile old man , its biology way of saying you need a younger model, a fertile woman. her value as a women is near zero. 13- to 35 they have value to men. but many put off marriage till 30 and they get the baby rabies and pop a few out. then you are stuck with them morally without sex for eternity . women for some odd unexplained reason seem to think we need their money when we never wanted it ever. i think thats because they wanted our money, anyway it is what it is. on a brighter note she will file for divorse , its in the playing deck and she pull out the card and take everything the house cars kids dog and friends leaving you with the debt and penniless. why ? because she can. you have a penis that works after all. she does not and that just so unfair.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Sexless? :*(

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    • thenatureboy5253
      6 years ago

      Just about.
      We were actually swingers for a large majority of our relationship and now we barely have sex with each other.

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      • JonathanOo
        6 years ago

        Sounds like you made a poor life decision then. Go shake things up ir the feeling won't change

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        • thenatureboy5253
          6 years ago

          Actually, life was good in the sex department at one time. We had great sex often AND, we were in the swinging lifestyle. Now, two kids later and inevitably getting older I'm facing the double whammy; we rarely have sex and when we have the opportunity I actually either don't really want to or have trouble getting aroused bc I'm just not attracted to her anymore.

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          • JonathanOo
            6 years ago

            I'd be honest with her and let her know. Not Having attraction isn't good because you'll have no desire to try and keep your relationship romantic. Perhaps couples therapy would help? Try to rebond with her over anything except her looks/ sexuality. Maybe theirs a way to appreciate and love her in another way

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  • PenisNV
    6 years ago

    I prefer old fat ass women with lots of wrinkles and sagging tits. And who fart slot. But to each his own.I love to watch granny porn on the net too.

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