What debunks this whole statement is him saying, "If you go see a male doctor, I'm dumping you."
He's willing to cause her emotional turmoil for his own feelings. Willingness to hurt your own partner for your own wants...; how is that love? That's controlling.
The possessiveness I can understand, because my boyfriend is a bit like that (and we talked about it), he's always ready to knock a guy out if he so much makes me uncomfortable. However, he has neither gave me an unltimatum, nor told me what to do. He simply gave me his switchblade, and asked that I stay safe lol.
I'm not attacking you, but just voicing my opinion that OP did crossed the line on this one.
IIN I panic over my gf visit to male doctor?
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What debunks this whole statement is him saying, "If you go see a male doctor, I'm dumping you."
He's willing to cause her emotional turmoil for his own feelings. Willingness to hurt your own partner for your own wants...; how is that love? That's controlling.
The possessiveness I can understand, because my boyfriend is a bit like that (and we talked about it), he's always ready to knock a guy out if he so much makes me uncomfortable. However, he has neither gave me an unltimatum, nor told me what to do. He simply gave me his switchblade, and asked that I stay safe lol.
I'm not attacking you, but just voicing my opinion that OP did crossed the line on this one.
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I can't argue there. The ultimatum is over the line I agree. THat is taking it too far.