Don't care how he feels? If you're in a relationship with someone you should care. It's true it doesn't mean you should automatically bend to your partners will but you should still care about how it makes them feel.
Also I guess we just have different views on this but I don't understand how you don't see this as him expressing his care. It's the same principle as most people don't want others to see their significant others naked.
I agree with you that medical care trumps modesty and his threatening to dump her is unquestionably over the top but its the same basic though misplaced sentiment. His love may be misplaced, but I do still see this as him caring for her in his own way.
I don't see him as caring or loving in the least. If I were in her shoes I'd take his stupid feelings into account, because those stupid feelings would be my reason for getting rid of him. Life is short, and there's no reason to settle for wasting time with someone who treats one as property.
I don't understand how you could see OP as caring at all, rather than seeing him for what he really is which is selfish, ignorrant, delusional, inappropriate and controlling. Controlling is not caring.
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Don't care how he feels? If you're in a relationship with someone you should care. It's true it doesn't mean you should automatically bend to your partners will but you should still care about how it makes them feel.
Also I guess we just have different views on this but I don't understand how you don't see this as him expressing his care. It's the same principle as most people don't want others to see their significant others naked.
I agree with you that medical care trumps modesty and his threatening to dump her is unquestionably over the top but its the same basic though misplaced sentiment. His love may be misplaced, but I do still see this as him caring for her in his own way.
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I don't see him as caring or loving in the least. If I were in her shoes I'd take his stupid feelings into account, because those stupid feelings would be my reason for getting rid of him. Life is short, and there's no reason to settle for wasting time with someone who treats one as property.
I don't understand how you could see OP as caring at all, rather than seeing him for what he really is which is selfish, ignorrant, delusional, inappropriate and controlling. Controlling is not caring.