You are NOT right dude. She is not going to leave you for the doctor or whatever.
The bottom line of why you shouldn't worry about this kind of stuff is simply this: if she is the type of person to cheat, then she is going to cheat. There's nothing you can possibly do about that. A circumstance that will get her to cheat either will eventually come along 100% definitely or it never will because she isn't a peice of shit. There is no in between. If she is going to she is going to, your actions won't change that
I agree I said in a lower post, I understand his feeling and he should talk to her but if this doctor is the best in the area then he should consider her health first
Regardless, I don't think she should even entertain the thought of considering his feelings, because her body is none of his business. I personally hope she dumps him. I bet he's very poorly endowed.
I think you're being rather one sided. people express their affection in different ways, some guys like showing off their girls to brag, others like to keep them hidden because she's their precious treasure.
You're only looking at this from the perspective that he's trying to control her, look at from his perspective, from the way he sees it this is how he shows he cares.
I'm not saying he's right or your right, You have a perfectly legitimate point. I'm just saying look at it his way as well, you seem rather angry on this subject. And honestly I think insulting him is unnecessary.
What debunks this whole statement is him saying, "If you go see a male doctor, I'm dumping you."
He's willing to cause her emotional turmoil for his own feelings. Willingness to hurt your own partner for your own wants...; how is that love? That's controlling.
The possessiveness I can understand, because my boyfriend is a bit like that (and we talked about it), he's always ready to knock a guy out if he so much makes me uncomfortable. However, he has neither gave me an unltimatum, nor told me what to do. He simply gave me his switchblade, and asked that I stay safe lol.
I'm not attacking you, but just voicing my opinion that OP did crossed the line on this one.
I really don't care how he or anyone like him feels, because love is not ownership. He's not expressing anything, he's just making it apparent that he thinks he has a right to ownership of her and her body. He might think he loves her, but what he thinks is love is something people are better off without.
IIN I panic over my gf visit to male doctor?
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You are NOT right dude. She is not going to leave you for the doctor or whatever.
The bottom line of why you shouldn't worry about this kind of stuff is simply this: if she is the type of person to cheat, then she is going to cheat. There's nothing you can possibly do about that. A circumstance that will get her to cheat either will eventually come along 100% definitely or it never will because she isn't a peice of shit. There is no in between. If she is going to she is going to, your actions won't change that
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It's not about him being afraid of her cheating, it's him not wanting another man to see his girl naked
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Her health is infinitely more important than his irrational feelings about her body. He doesn't own her.
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I agree I said in a lower post, I understand his feeling and he should talk to her but if this doctor is the best in the area then he should consider her health first
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Regardless, I don't think she should even entertain the thought of considering his feelings, because her body is none of his business. I personally hope she dumps him. I bet he's very poorly endowed.
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I think you're being rather one sided. people express their affection in different ways, some guys like showing off their girls to brag, others like to keep them hidden because she's their precious treasure.
You're only looking at this from the perspective that he's trying to control her, look at from his perspective, from the way he sees it this is how he shows he cares.
I'm not saying he's right or your right, You have a perfectly legitimate point. I'm just saying look at it his way as well, you seem rather angry on this subject. And honestly I think insulting him is unnecessary.
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What debunks this whole statement is him saying, "If you go see a male doctor, I'm dumping you."
He's willing to cause her emotional turmoil for his own feelings. Willingness to hurt your own partner for your own wants...; how is that love? That's controlling.
The possessiveness I can understand, because my boyfriend is a bit like that (and we talked about it), he's always ready to knock a guy out if he so much makes me uncomfortable. However, he has neither gave me an unltimatum, nor told me what to do. He simply gave me his switchblade, and asked that I stay safe lol.
I'm not attacking you, but just voicing my opinion that OP did crossed the line on this one.
I really don't care how he or anyone like him feels, because love is not ownership. He's not expressing anything, he's just making it apparent that he thinks he has a right to ownership of her and her body. He might think he loves her, but what he thinks is love is something people are better off without.
Who needs love like that? Nobody!
Oh well in that case what the fuck?!? If he's a gyno he definitely isn't thinking about fucking while examining someone.