Is it normal i'm turned on by my wife cheating on me

A little background first, I'm 32 my wife is 40. We've been married for 8 years. We don't have any children together but she has 4 kids from previous relationships by 4 different guys. She had her tubes tied after her last child so she can't have anymore. She's told me before we married that she has slept with around 50 guys before me. I also knew that she was capable of cheating since she was cheating on her boyfriend with me when we first met. So I knew upfront that she had been around. I guess I thought I could change her. Well 2 years ago I found out that she was cheating on me and she contracted herpes which I recently found out she has given to me also. Obviously I was very upset about her cheating on me and later finding out that she has given me a std. I was ready to leave her. I was very angry and felt betrayed. Lately the more I think about her cheating on me it really turns me on. The fact that she had such a lack of regard for or me, our marriage and even herself to sleep with another guy unprotected without fear of the consequences really turns me on. I haven't told her this yet but I'm really turned on by the thought of it. I want her to sleep with more guys and just really whore herself out. Is this normal? By the way I'm a very attractive guy, I could have pretty much any woman I want, I have a very good job my own everything I could easily move on and find happiness elsewhere. My wife on the other hand has nothing. She doesn't work, I am the sole financial support for her, her 4 kids ages 21,20, 16 and 10 and also her 61yo mother who lives with us. I've been told by my friends and family since we've started dating that I can do better than my wife and that I took a huge step down when I married her. Is it normal for me to be willing to reduce myself to the point where I just let my wife sleep with whoever she wants? Has any other guys on here done this? And should I do it?

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Based on 45 votes (29 yes)
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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome

    You're a textbook case of cuck.

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  • madi18181

    nah i think it's normal. what turns you on turns you on (-:

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  • You are the ultimate spineless loser. With herpes.

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  • Nastynate

    Sick cuck

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  • CreamPuffs

    That is utterly pathetic of you. I think you need more self-respect.

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  • RoseIsabella

    That's messed up. You should have your head examined.

    Enjoy your cold sores!

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  • hymiehymowitz

    You're an idiot and a cuckolded faggot.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Mazeltov!

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  • cuminme

    Do not listen to all the negative comments and you do what turns you on and gives you pleasure. Remember this is your life. It is your journey not theirs. You should be open and honest with your wife about this and I will guarantee that your own sex life with your wife will go to a level you never thought was so pleasurable and enjoyable for you both.
    The 2 of you will become so close and the fact that your wife is enjoying herself and her body with someone else with your approval and consent will mean so much to her. You will both reach a new level of honesty respect and trust that your relationship will grow beyond your wildest dreams.
    I know this personally as I was exactly the same as your wife heating on my husband lying and disrespecting him until it was all bought out into the open.
    I honestly thought that this would end my marriage but it was the complete opposite. Our marriage now is so strong and beautiful enough I still regularly sleep with other men than go back and tell my husband honestly about my enjoyment and disappointment.
    lets be honest sometimes the other guy can be a dud but the sex with my husband when I get home now is always wonderful
    SO TELL HER YOU KNOW AND YOU WANT HER TO CONTINUE .
    Be Honest with yourself and her than you two will really enjoy life

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  • Claireuttley

    Let her fuck dozens of guys... then you have 1, a good excuse to leave her and find someone decent or 2, the chance to video her and make zome money

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  • mike1982

    I watch a 17 year old boy with a big dick fuck my 28 year old wife for three days this year at the beach home we rented. He had to had fucked her over 20 times the last day they fucked I had to kiss, lick and put ice on her pussy for the next 24hr. for the rest of that week I did not get her pussy Cindy was fucked out. I did get off on watching that boy 8in dick fuck Cindy all over that house

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  • me too

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  • limpy

    From the "normal" point of view, you are being abused... A provider to her and her kids, but she screwed around fucking other men..
    If you are a cuckold, a real one, an honest relationship will dictate that you 'participate' in some form or other. Anything else, is pure cheating, and you should leave her..

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  • Str84tgirls

    Any woman i date i need to see her have sex with another person, before i will give her the D. I love promiscuous slutty women. Any woman i date can have all the sex with as many people as she wants, provided, i get to watch and jerk off while she does at least half the time, those who they do not use condoms with who cum inside i want to eat her out asap , guys she lets cream her poop chute must clean her out thoroughly before so i can suck it out. I once setup a gangbang for this slut gf of mine for our anniversary. 7 hung black guys enjoyed her for 3 hours, i watchedx and ate her out many times, as they didnt use condoms, thank god. Love letting guys cum in a woman i am involved with, as i watch. If i marry a woman with a vagina, i want her to be be gangbanged at the alter, by 16 guys, all cumming inside her. The reception will feature an open gangbang on her, and final event ahe aits kn me facw to aee how much jizz pours out.

    Seriously wish i could date a porn slut or a prostitute, but only the ones who have had a few years on the job.

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  • Str84tgirls

    Most turned on a woman has gotten me was me walking in on her in the midst of a DP with her brothers 2 best friends and their giant packages, and them not stopping and i told them they better cum inside her, and not in her, so ican suck it out of her pussy as soon as they pull out. They obliged, then she made me give them BJs later.

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