Is it normal i'm jealous

I'm beyond jealous when it comes to my boyfriend. Like I don't want him to like girls statuses on Facebook or add girls on Facebook. And I hate this soo much ! I don't wanna be jealous but I am ! Like when we first got together I wasn't as bad but then we started breaking up and every time we break up he does something with a girl. Not sexually or anything but like message on Facebook or something. This past instance we broke up and and when we got back together and I asked him did he have any contact with a girl and he said no but then I just found out today that he was messaging a girl on Facebook ! He says its not a big deal but this hurts so bad. Idk if its BC he talked to another girl or because he lied too me.. I don't wanna be jealous . the only person it hurts is me. Please give positive feedback !

Is It Normal?
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  • Yeap. Summer is definitely upon us.

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  • I'm afraid to ask how old you are.

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  • Obviously you two are not going to be together much longer. He lies to you and you don't trust him.
    When you are broken up, it is none of your business who he sees or contacts on facebook; don't you understand that? He doesn't owe you anything when you are broken up; nothing!
    It sounds to me like he is trying to find someone else and he's going to dump your jealous ass like a hot potato when he finds her.
    Take a lesson away from this relationship; jealousy kills any relationship.

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    • It becomes my business when he lies on our child about it .

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      • You know who I feel sorry for? Not you, or him, but if you two have made a child, then the poor thing is very, very unlucky to have you both for parents.

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  • Don't be jelly if you offer no custard.

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