Is it normal i'm apathetic towards sex

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I am 24 and recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend (6 months ago). I had always imagined I would have sex after marriage but he came into my life and that changed and I had also imagined sex to be this amazing feeling but now that I am having it, I feel nothing. My bf goes down on me for a long time, we try different positions etc but I don't feel anything, it's like my vagina is numb.. all I can feel is friction of his penis throbbing into me and no sensation of pleasure at all. Even when he touches me, sucks my boobs and all that foreplay, I don't feel anything, my senses are just dead... but I do get wet, a lot. The only position during sex when I can feel a bit of sensation is doggy style but even then it's only slight.

Has anyone ever experienced this and what can I do.

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  • GameOfThrones
    7 years ago

    Normal. some women, like myself and my best friend, have to masturbate while having sex. Perhaps buy a small vibrator (for the clit) and use that while the two of you have sex.

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    • Queer291
      7 years ago

      Yea absalutley right. I've never had an orgasm with anyone other than myself. I no what I like where I like it and when I want it. Seriously get a mini vibrator or a bullet turn it on and star rubbing it back and forth you clit if your on your own get something up your self and frantically rub you'll come fast and hard within mins. When you no what you like yourself your boyfriend can catch up

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  • lovebuzz1025
    7 years ago

    Try a vibrator. Some women are less sensitive than others...or maybe some tingly lubricant. Also maybe since you're pretty new to sex, you haven't really discovered what feels good. As a woman, jusst because someone is going down on you doesn't mean it's going to do anything for you. Try being on top and grinding yourself into your boyfriend. Or maybe figure things out on your own without him so there is no pressure to reach a climax. It's all about knowing your body. Hope this helps :) not having a satisfying sex life can really add stress to a relationship. Good luck ✌

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  • Dreamsao
    7 years ago

    There's doctors for that. Look it up

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  • mrbrownfinger
    7 years ago

    let him put it in your ass, see if you feel anything then

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