I feel you 1000% , its totally normal. Fantasy has absolutely nothing to do with personal morals or things you hope to happen to women in actual life. Just because you like something in the bedroom doesn't mean it has any standing in court of law. Plus remember, the thing is, in play like this, you still have power. You can say no, you can stop it, this type of play in bed actually reinforces the bond between you and your partner and adds inherent trust and respect on both sides. Your partner has to learn that when you really mean it, saying a safe word is immediate time to back the fuck up. You both have equal power in play. That's just how it is in a healthy relationship. You're equal.
Which brings us right back to feminism!
IIN I'm a very adamant feminist yet I love degrading sex
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I feel you 1000% , its totally normal. Fantasy has absolutely nothing to do with personal morals or things you hope to happen to women in actual life. Just because you like something in the bedroom doesn't mean it has any standing in court of law. Plus remember, the thing is, in play like this, you still have power. You can say no, you can stop it, this type of play in bed actually reinforces the bond between you and your partner and adds inherent trust and respect on both sides. Your partner has to learn that when you really mean it, saying a safe word is immediate time to back the fuck up. You both have equal power in play. That's just how it is in a healthy relationship. You're equal.
Which brings us right back to feminism!