Is it normal i'm a very adamant feminist yet i love degrading sex

That's the problem with ideologies like feminism. Equal rights for women is a worthy goal of course, but so often there are value judgements attached about what people /should/ do in their own lives. There's a big difference between saying women have the right to pursue a career and telling a women she's wrong for being a homemaker. But apparently it's easy for people to lose sight of that distinction. I'm not saying you personally do that, but maybe you've got a bit of internalized (feminist) oppression. ;)

I just came.

I don't understand people getting into dominance and submission period. I had this one dude get really pushy and aggressive with me and I threw him across the room.

I'm exactly the same :D Glad I'm not the only one.

Domination and submission are forms of play. Play is fun because it allows to you safely explore alternatives from your real life - "safely" meaning "in a way which is isolated from real life". Play is fun *precisely because* it isn't reflective of your normal self. Dominance and submission sessions are escapes from reality, not reality itself. How you enjoy to play doesn't say anything about who you "really are" (for lack of a better term).

In the same way that a kid who plays Call Of Duty probably doesn't want to really join the Army and kill enemies in battle, a person who enjoys dominance and submission probably doesn't really desire to live as a dominant or a submissive in their real lives. Dominance and submission can be completely coherent with feminism, just like playing Call Of Duty can be completely coherent with pacifism.

I feel you 1000% , its totally normal. Fantasy has absolutely nothing to do with personal morals or things you hope to happen to women in actual life. Just because you like something in the bedroom doesn't mean it has any standing in court of law. Plus remember, the thing is, in play like this, you still have power. You can say no, you can stop it, this type of play in bed actually reinforces the bond between you and your partner and adds inherent trust and respect on both sides. Your partner has to learn that when you really mean it, saying a safe word is immediate time to back the fuck up. You both have equal power in play. That's just how it is in a healthy relationship. You're equal.
Which brings us right back to feminism!

I'm the same. I've always been a feminist and part of the feminist movement. I enjoy humiliating and degrading sex though. Thing is I don't believe there is anything inherent about me that deserves that-I choose to let some men treat me like that. It's my choice.

You sound pretty cool to me! Are you good looking too?

Hot. Sounds like you've learned your place. ;)

"called names that if I was ever called outside of sex I would probably have to slap you across the face"

how would I know what is sex and what isn't?

Feminism is your way of weeding out the wussy losers. You secretly love guys that are jerks.

The first line is all I'm reading, it's too typically feminist.

Very normal, while my girl is not the crazy feminist type she does like fb pages related to it lol. She's very submissive in bed, likes to be toldwwhat to do and when.. And likes to be treated like a total Slut, so yeah your not the only one

To tell you the truth miss, a fetish is a fetish. If it's what you like it isn't uncommon. You shouldn't concern yourself with opposing your feminist views due to the fact that truth be told, sex has nothing to do with feminism. I may not know how or why it is what it is today, but as I recall Feminism was about equality, being treated with the same social value as men. To squash gender stereotypes and prove that women are just as good.

Do you remember Rosie the Riveter, for quite a period of time stood as the symbol of feminist. So don't be hard on yourself, you've done nothing wrong on any side.

nothing wrong at all with that, anyone who says otherwise is boring and jealous, have fun and give me a call

Just let be like that and let it fuel things

It's a fetish. I always separate fetish from reality.

It's understandable, simply put the way I see it you want better classier treatment in your normal everyday life but in the bed imo that's a whole different life if you ask me

Sounds like a Jekyll and Hyde thing.
You separate your personality into the submissive slavegirl by night and the dominant bitch by day.

Average the two and you end up with normal.