Sorry, I meant I would have to do it for love. The way you put it, "for security reasons", makes it sound like you work for a certain government agency or something. Would you mind elaborating on it?
For one, I don't want to use a condom: If I have sex I want my semen in her (to me using a condom is like being bulimic). If I go around being promiscuous under this condition then I'm putting myself at risk for unwanted pregnancies and STDs. Secondly, I want to give an "In your face" (no sexual innuendo intended) to some people.
Those are very practical reasons for waiting. I really do like your analogy of condom use, hehehe. ...and if you're not willing to use one, then waiting for the most serious romantic relationship of your life makes a lot of sense. I can also appreciate your dissident stance.
To some religious people who say that participating in mainstream culture is intrinsically sinful since they think you can't get into mainstream culture today without ending up losing your virginity before marriage.
Well, you could be a bit more careful to whom you sleep with and make sure that she's on the pills.
Myself I do not see the point in waiting with sex, mostly because sex is such an important thing (to me) and I do believe that you need to experiment some to find your thrills and turn ons. What if the woman you end up getting married with turns out to not interest you sexually?
IIN I'm a man want to abstain from sex for non-religious reasons
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Sorry, I meant I would have to do it for love. The way you put it, "for security reasons", makes it sound like you work for a certain government agency or something. Would you mind elaborating on it?
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For one, I don't want to use a condom: If I have sex I want my semen in her (to me using a condom is like being bulimic). If I go around being promiscuous under this condition then I'm putting myself at risk for unwanted pregnancies and STDs. Secondly, I want to give an "In your face" (no sexual innuendo intended) to some people.
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Those are very practical reasons for waiting. I really do like your analogy of condom use, hehehe. ...and if you're not willing to use one, then waiting for the most serious romantic relationship of your life makes a lot of sense. I can also appreciate your dissident stance.
One more thing, who are 'some people' ?
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To some religious people who say that participating in mainstream culture is intrinsically sinful since they think you can't get into mainstream culture today without ending up losing your virginity before marriage.
Well, you could be a bit more careful to whom you sleep with and make sure that she's on the pills.
Myself I do not see the point in waiting with sex, mostly because sex is such an important thing (to me) and I do believe that you need to experiment some to find your thrills and turn ons. What if the woman you end up getting married with turns out to not interest you sexually?
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If I get married I hope it will be more of a security-based one (ideally with some love), rather than a flarey romantic sex based one.