Is it normal i'm 20 and still not sure about my sexuality?

I'll be 20 in a few months and I'm still unsure about my sexuality. I decided that I'm not straight since I'm very sexually attracted to women. However, I don't know if I'm bisexual or lesbian. I know labels don't matter but I'd like a label in this case.

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Comments ( 24 )
  • nikkiclaire

    What Jen19 said. Enjoy both until the right person comes along.

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    • rayb12

      So do you remember when you and another user got so mad at me and were saying no things for no reason. And then your friend accused me of being responsible for you attempting suicide. And then neither of you apologized.

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      • nikkiclaire

        Be a human.

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        • EccentricWeird

          Is this true? Fucking apologize.

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  • Ellenna

    Why do you need a label? If you're very sexually attracted to women you're probably lesbian: why do you think you could be bi?

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  • Try both. I love sex with both and don't care about labels! Just have fun!

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  • Tophattoffee

    Fuk labels you will still be figuring out new shit in ur 30s too have fun with it

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  • Bailey_Rose

    Labels are just that....a label! Nobody reads them anyway! Therefore they don't really matter! Lesbian, Bisexual, it doesn't really matter as long as you are being true to yourself. Some people don't realize until later in life what their true sexuality or even gender preference is. Just continue your journey of self discovery and have fun along the way!

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    • Bazinga

      I've been reading your comments. Are you a gay man in a woman's body?

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      • Bailey_Rose

        I'm not even going to dignify that question with a direct answer. From what I've seen from your responses, all you appear to be is just another troll looking to start problems.....AKA.....A TROLL.

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        • Bazinga

          Actually, I am in strong agreement with your observation about discovering yourself by having fun. To that end, many of us could give carefully thought contributions knowing about your body type and the body types of your preferred sex objects.

          Btw, I have a man's body with a very small cock. I like to give women squirting orgasms with my ultra sensitive fingers using g-spot manipulation. Eventually, the girls tire of the novelty and want a good bang. They then kick me to the curb and find the most obstinate beer drinking ape that's available. With primal satisfaction running high, the hit and run victim experience keeps the cycle of female drama ready for another round. Slavery to desires is the keynote of their lives. Quiet desperation is the keynote of mine.

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  • Maybe-Not-Who-You-Thought

    Sexuality isn't like a one time offer where you can only choose once. Nor is it age limited.
    You can choose at5 or 50...you are who you are, not who you were or who you could be.

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    • Boojum

      Agree with this.

      Some people know exactly what they're interested in from the time they're first aware of sexuality. Some people start out believing they're interested in one thing (often due to social forces), and then realize that isn't who they really are. Some people genuinely do desire one thing at one point in their lives, and then their preferences change.

      Putting every aspect of the world in a neat category makes life easier, so it's human to want to label things, but human sexuality is just too complicated for that to work well.

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  • randypete

    Have sex with everyone and have fun

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    • EccentricWeird

      Yes, moar aids! aids for all!1

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  • TerriAngel

    Why look for a group to fit into?
    I have known my turn ons from an early age.
    I found out some were not common and not to be talked about.
    With further experiences.
    There are turn ons I never expected.
    (internet stuff.)
    point is, why label.
    if it feels good, do it.
    But, cause no harm.
    play safe.

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  • Dustyair

    Sorry to hear that, ya gotta stop listening to the liberal brainwashing machine, you'll start feeling better.

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  • Pakiking7987

    You should enjoy both sexes try with a male then female and see what turns you on. Or try having a threesome and experience both i tried that and realized im bisexual im a male i live sucking mans cock and kicking wimans oussy

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  • EccentricWeird

    Well, are you normal or are you queer?

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  • AgonLe

    No. It's not normal to not o now yourself. Especially after you've already described yourself.

    You like women more! But that means at a level, you still also like men. And that would make you bisexual.simple.

    Doesn't matter the level.

    Also you are male or female. Not a mix. So your gender, no matter how they try to make it seem, doesn't change. But sexuality isn't that straightforward. Your likes are influenced by many things.

    I'm a straight man. As far as I can tell. But who knows if a time comes and some guy who's super feminine, will have to be cause I like my women feminine...so if a gay guy is super feminine maybe that would trick my mind enough to be ok with it...idk.

    Maybe I'll be curious enough at a point. I don't think so now. But I also don't do coke now. But have become more curious about trying lately. Which, 6yrs ago, I'd tell you that I would never have tried it

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    Assuming you're female, if you're only attracted to women, you're lesbian. Period.

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  • Chihuahuaxxx

    Don't feel pressured to try and fit yourself into any particular label just experiment and discover what you like best :)

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  • Do you want some wet licks?

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    • nikkiclaire

      Omg.

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