Is it normal i love doggy style but don’t want my butthole touched?

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Doggy style is by far my favorite position. I’d probably only do it that way if it were solely up to me. But I’ve noticed a lot of boys like to play with my butthole in that position, or at least ask if they can, and I really don’t like being touched there. I know it’s really visible in that position and that doesn’t bother me, in fact it’s kind of a turn on knowing they can see it, but it makes me uncomfortable being touched there, I can’t explain why.

I know lots of women like doggy style, it is normal to love that position but not want your butthole being touched at all?

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  • shuggy-chan
    4 years ago | pl

    Then try kitty style, it’s pretty much the same, but the penis is barbed

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago | pl

    Wear a buttplug, cant touch what is already filled.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago | pl

    I can agree fully. I have tried but really don’t like butt stuff.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago | pl

    You have a right to not want anyone near your backdoor. It's your body.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago | pl

      For sure! Thankfully almost everybody I’ve been with has been respectful, I was just wondering if other women felt the same way.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago | pl

        Well, I'm not into anything with my back door, because it's a one way street. I don't think a woman should consent to anal sex with a man unless that man is willing to consent to her pegging him.

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        • SwickDinging
          4 years ago | pl

          That's an excellent system

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago | pl

            Thanks! My most recent ex-boyfriend asked me about anal sex, and I told that I would NEVER allow him to do that to me unless he let me peg him first. He dropped it of course, because he is selfish just like the narcissistic abuser that his sorry ass is. He could imagine subjecting me to something painful for the sake of his own selfish wants, but cannot accept the idea of receiving that same thing from me. It doesn't matter, because I'm not into that stuff, but I sure as Hell won't let someone get something from me that he's not willing to give.

            I'm so glad you like my system! 😎

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        • Daniel42
          4 years ago | pl

          I like that your right

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  • Ummitsstillme
    4 years ago | pl

    As long as they respect your boundaries all is fine. Just be clear your desires (or lack there of)

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  • Fluteplayer101
    4 years ago | pl

    I unfortunately can’t stand anal, although I wish I could but the few times I tried I absolutely hate it and would never do it again so I understand how you feel! I like the foggy style position as well but I draw a line when it comes to my ass.

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  • Handyman
    4 years ago | pl

    I fully understand how you feel, I don't like anything at the rear, either!

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago | pl

    The idea of ass-play makes me cringe. But once it's happening I try to relax and wind up enjoying it.

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  • MimiS
    3 years ago | pl

    I love doggy style but never anal. Fortunately my husband is equally keep on doggy style but he is not into anal.

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  • Chagalx
    4 years ago | pl

    You should try self stimulation of your Anus. Most people don't like to be touched there because they think it's dirty. You can clean that area really well and if you use a good lube, you can make it feel really good. I pretty much like anal penetration on a very regular basis because it feels so good.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago | pl

      Yeah I’ve tried it in the shower, sometimes very light pressure feels okay, but any more than that is a big turn off for me. But I’m happy for you that you enjoy it! Sometimes I wish I was the same way.

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  • russellnb
    4 years ago | pl

    I love doggy style because I like watching my cock going in and out of a nice, wet, pussy and I can sit back and watch my cum drip out

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  • curious-bunny
    4 years ago | pl

    Yea doggy is great, some men are just pervs, I adore anal it feels great, however as a trans woman I dont hageva vagina.. Well alot of men wabt to play with what's tgere and that is something i am very very rarely interested in like calm down guys your getting some ass cut your odds there and quite while your ahead cause you are one stroke away from me loosing interest altogether

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  • aetsen555
    4 years ago | pl

    Would you allow a guy to lick your asshole?

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  • bigbudchonga
    4 years ago | pl

    Sew up your butthole, or put a cork in it, then there won't be a problem

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago | pl

      I used to know a girl who had her asshole sewn shut.

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      • raisinbran
        4 years ago | pl

        Umm... really? Why?

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        • RoseIsabella
          4 years ago | pl

          ... because she had to have an ostomy bag. She was kind of asshole which is hella funny, because I have never referred to her as a poo bag, but now I see that I could have. She was one of those super annoying vegetarians who invited you out to a restaurant then bitches about how you order steak, and just complains the whole time you're trying to eat. She actually showed her sewn up asshole to a mutual friend. I dunno what all of that was about.

          She also enjoyed nagging a lot, and I mean a lot. I think she was surprised to see that I don't respond much to nagging.

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