Is it normal i'll never understand why guys find lesbians hot

Because they don't want you- They want each other?

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  • SpongeBobSquareBants

    Imagine it like two chocolate bars. You like eating one, so a second is twice as good.
    Plus there's bragging rights there, imagine being able to say to your peers, ' I was able to turn two girls straight '.
    Just my thoughts but generally women are the primary consumer of male homosexual porn so... there's that. Possibly we just want what we can't have.

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    • I'd rather brag about how hard I bang them while they're still bi.

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      • Because you're a sex freak with low self esteem who probably has a tiny dick.
        So to compensate, you attempt to fulfill your animalistic urges so you can boost your pathetic ego.
        Am I right?

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        • Hahaha partially. I fuck/wank 10-30 times a day and I have animalistic urges to fuck almost everything. But the dick is average in length and a little bit bigger than average in girth. Women love it, especially because I can have sex for hours and I know how to do it properly. Also, I got huge ego and self-esteem, which, by the way, is written with a dash. You probably are a fag/bi cuck (cuz you keep talking about gay porn for fuck's sake) or a virgin that makes anti-Trump, pro-feminism, rapefugees welcome and LGBT banners with no job and no/poor education. Am I right?

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          • SmokeEverything

            Thank you for your input here, so much sexual advice on this site comes from people who don't have sex at all or if they do, do not do it properly and follow archaic nun rules for sexual conduct.

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            • You're just another on the list. So you're response means nothing.

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            • I'd kill myself rather than listening with those people or worse, living a woman like that.

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          • Woman don't love you, they probably feel sorry for you, don't think highly of themselves due to having sex with a low life like yourself.
            Saying you have a huge ego means your vain.
            Being vain = insecure. So you just answered my question thanks :)

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    • SpongeBobSquareBants

      I don't know if you're still active, I just want to point out once more how irritable you are, looking at your responses to everyone on here. More specifically, the people saying it's normal. Why ask if you are so closed minded that you cannot consider that it's normal? Furthermore, it must be normal, as normal is something commonplace, if it wasn't common, you wouldn't have heard of it and needed to ask.
      Stop moaning and down-voting everyone with an opposing view, it's incredibly childish, insufferably ignorant and incredulously disrespectful.

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    • I disagree 100%!!
      They would have a better chance having a three some with a couple of gay guys as opposed to 2 woman who are lesbian. If they're true lesbian, they'd want nothing sexual to do with a guy.
      No such thing as turning a lesbian straight. If she's bi then that's an obvious outcome. If she's lesbian, she's fuking lesbian!
      Majority of women do not watch gay guy porn, more like straight & lesbian.

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      • SpongeBobSquareBants

        It's a fantasy. It doesn't have to be logical and structured to the point of a consideration in to what has the better odds. How many people out there are actually going to meet Emma Watson? How many of those are actually going to have a chance of having sex with Emma Watson? Most likely under one hundred, and a high percentage of those guys will most likely not be able to have sex with her for one reason or another. However, it is still a common fantasy to have sex with her because she is seen as desirable for whatever reasons. This is a simple proof that thought comes second to "horniness".

        Women will most likely be seen as the better option for a threesome for most guys for one simple reason. They are not men. Unless the man is gay or bisexual, two women will be the only threesome that they will enjoy.
        The 'lesbian' aspect is questionable, it is more likely that they will want bisexual women, but simply refer to them as 'lesbians' since it is a more recognizable term. In today's society, it is more frequently known, however, to previous generations it was likely not as commonplace.

        Beneath is a quote from the article linked below.
        'Ninety percent of the participants said they masturbated to male-on-male content, and 82 percent of the sample said male-on-male was their preferred type of porn. Sixty-eight percent of the participants also watched heterosexual pornography, and 53 percent watched lesbian pornography.'

        The key aspect of this is that 82% prefer to watch male, homosexual porn. This proves my earlier statement. The study also contains a quote from one of the females sampled. It is, 'I am attracted to males so seeing two of โ€™em get it on together is like: BOOM, TWICE THE SEXY!'. This also proves my statement about the chocolate bar analogy.

        Please do not tell me that I am wrong when this evidence was so readily available. I apologize for not initially including it as a way of keeping my comment short and concise. If I had to give an opinion on why you so ferociously attack those, like me, who have the opinion that it is normal and that lesbians may occasionally stray from their average 'type'. I would guess that you are insecure about your own sexuality and overcompensate by insisting that everyone stays within their confining labels and can not be removed from them by any means. However, that's conjecture and a way for me to express my displeasure in your demeanor politely.

        http://www.psypost.org/2016/04/study-research-why-some-women-prefer-to-watch-gay-male-pornography-42190

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  • Because many straight men are dickheads and think that women are lesbians because they haven't "had a good dick". These men have been seduced by fake lesbianism in porn which is basically just two paid straight or bi porn actors getting it on for the camera.
    These men are also usually very homophobic towards gay men. I bet most of them wouldn't have a fucking clue what to do if their dumb fantasy was showing signs that it may come true. They'd probably run away.

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    • Thank you well said

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    • yasss

      So very true.

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    • Is in fact because lesbians hate guys along with their dicks

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  • Del

    Because it is related to threesome, men imagine that they have sex with them.

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    • Well they can keep dreaming because if she's a pure lesbian then she likes women not men! How thick are guys? Lesbian= A female strictly & purely attracted to other women.

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      • Tessa4213

        imma guy, and i have slept with a full on lesbian. so not completely true, they get bored sometimes. And sleeping with lesbians isn't why there hot, its just fun to watch them kiss in my opinion.

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        • She's obviously bi not pure lesbian

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          • Murun

            How would you know what she is before the event.. I bet she said she was a lesbian!
            Can you now see why there is no logic to your opinion that men shouldn't fancy lesbians?

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      • RoyRogers

        I starting to believe these type of things might be similar to celebrity crushes. I think it has to do with detachment. These people have sexual cravings but want something which is so detached from themselves they can enjoy it without being vulnerable.

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        • Murun

          Yes.. And that very detachment can lead to actual sex.

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      • New-Zealand-Guy

        Please stop being sexist, guys are not thick and women are just as thick as guys are. You wouldn't believe what some women don't get or understand! It has nothing to do with gender! The truth is guys that are into that (I am not) actually do find women that are willing to do it.

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        • Gidday long time no talk, to the one that blatantly ignored my question twice on a post ages ago.
          Firstly, guys can be thick (A lot are).
          Secondly, if it hasnt got anything to do with gender then why don't they find 2 gay guys getting it on, hot?
          In regards to the latter part- obviously they wouldn't be true lesbians if they're willing to allow a guy to jump on board.

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      • BlackCatsAreAwesome

        A lot of those porn stars are bisexual though. One of my all time favourite videos features Leah Jaye and Sahara Knite pissing on each other and both girls do straight stuff as well. I agree that watching actual dykes is silly though.

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    • walkingdildo

      Not true.

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  • thatscrazybruh

    It's just nice to watch 2 hot women get dirty with each other. It seems kinda self explanatory as to why.

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    • No? Why don't you watch gay porn then? No true lesbian is interested in a man so u may as well watch gay porn

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      • thatscrazybruh

        you sound absolutely stupid

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        • You sound absolutely fucked in the head. You obviously have no brain cells because you can't even fathom a simple fact as this -_-

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  • walkingdildo

    This thing about participating is nonsense. I am a man who enjoys watching lesbians, and I think a lot of responses are by women who don't understand. A lot of the time, or even most, we just enjoy watching. It's a highly charged event involving pure feminine sexuality, a straight man's dream. I have no interest in ruining such an event with masculinity, the pure feminine lust is very erotic. In a weird way there is something almost incestuous about it, an unproductive inward sexuality which will only ever be for pleasure, not reproduction. I hope that helps.

    If I ever fantasize about joining in, it would be as a woman. Guess that makes me a male lesbian...

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  • assyla

    Because, scissoring...

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    • And how does that explain anything? You can't join unless you have a vagina? Why dont you find 2 gay guys butt fucking each other or making out hot?

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  • edwininthematrix

    simply put, guys like women and two women are usually better than one! A lot of guys imagine themselves being in the middle of a lesbian sandwich, and that is where the whole threesome idea comes in. obviously if the ladies were real lesbians they wouldn't want to have a guy there, but that's beside the point. It's not so much that guys find lesbians very desirable (lets face it many lesbians fit the stereotype of being so-called butch and not feminine), but that they find girls / women who 'pretend' to be lesbians just to 'explore' that side of their sexuality, to be attractive...lets say a scenario where two girls (who both have boyfriends) go to a party with their friends and then get drunk and start making out, that kind of thing. So in a sense guys are more into bisexual girls not lesbians, per se.

    Also, I can't speak for all guys but there is an aspect to it that relates to being submissive. It's the idea that two girls would rather make out and have sex with each other rather than with a man. That's part of the fantasy for me...that even if I was there, the ladies wouldn't pay attention to me. The fact that I might want both of them, alone or together, but that they don't care about me at all because are too busy enjoying each other.

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    • That's such a warped way of thinking. That's right though, if she's a true lesbian then she won't want anything to do with the guy unless she's bi obviously. Its just weird, why not watch and get off on gay porn then? They'd have a huge chance of having a three some with 2 gay guys (Who are strictly attracted to men), than a three some with 2 lesbian woman (who are strictly attracted to ladies). I mean its such hypocrisy really! Most men are homophobic yet they have illogical, warped fantasies about lesbians who want no bar of a man.

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      • edwininthematrix

        Exactly. The psychology of guys being attracted to lesbian porn is tricky but interesting. My theory is that most guys feel simultaneously threatened and excited by the idea and fantasy of two beautiful, attractive, and gorgeous women being totally fulfilled and satisfied in every way by each other, while also being totally immune and indifferent to the guy's masculine charms.

        That is why the perfect lesbian scenarios often seem to involve a guy's current girlfriend (who he happens to be cheating on), and another girl (who he is having a secret relationship with). Sometimes they even seek revenge or retaliate against the guy and try making him feel as worthless as he made them feel. If you can understand the logic behind that then everything seems to make sense: the fantasy that a guy wanted to be with both of these girls but eventually both girls discovered the truth about the other and instead of being angry or upset at each other, they fell in love due to their shared hatred for the guy. Like I said, there is an aspect to lesbian porn that hits at feelings of humiliation / embarrassment deep down. Basically it's about wanting something you can't have, a forbidden fruit kind of thing.

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    • JonathanOo

      I agree

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  • satanniggasandpopsicle

    why do girls find gay guys hot then?

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    • We don't?

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      • yasss

        You might not, but many woman (straight or especially Bi woman) do find gay guys attractive.

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        • May find them attractive but we don't have stupid, warped fantasies about them like you guys and your rediculous lesbian fantasies.

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          • yasss

            I'm just pointing out that you said " like you guys" While I'm not male, sorry, hate to be that person, just saying.

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      • satanniggasandpopsicle

        YES DONT BE A FUCKING LIAR

        I KNOW FOR A FACT SOME GIRLS LIKE GAY DUDES, YAOI PORN

        DONT LIE TO ME

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        • SmokeEverything

          Honestly most of everyone I know who watches gay porn is a girl. Gay dudes have an easy enough time finding people to have sex with that they dont need porn.

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        • In your made up imagination yes but you can keep dreaming & I could ask u the same question? Why don't you get off on 2 gay guys pashing and sucking each other off??

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          • satanniggasandpopsicle

            anything else to say?

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      • RoyRogers

        Wrong, some women do. Just because you do no does not dismiss all women completely.

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        • satanniggasandpopsicle

          thank you

          this lying chick just doesnt want to admit the truth because then it will make her look like a fucking hypocrite, which she fking is

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          • Knightmare

            Hey, you don't know what they're interested in any better than any of us. We can't even be certain of their gender.

            Don't say that you're certain it's a woman, I was thinking this question a while ago and I'm not in the mood for anyone questioning my manhood.

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            • satanniggasandpopsicle

              i know some girls like yaoi porn, yes

              whos gender?

              what the hell are you even talking about?

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          • Wtf !! You are that dumb ass sand nigga.
            No point in bothering with you so I'm going to dismiss everything you say. Dealt with your stupidity once and never again because you have 0 brain cells.

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            • satanniggasandpopsicle

              are you a liberal by any chance? lol

              this might clear things up real fast

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            • satanniggasandpopsicle

              hypocritical selfish bitch

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            • satanniggasandpopsicle

              thank you. i am sand nigga. and i am BACK!!! :DDDD

              what up homos. this is satan. coming to you from new jack city boy. grab your strappers and your dildos because we're about to go on a ride!

              i like ice cream and the desert. flying my rainbow flag of homosexuality.

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  • pulce

    I think some guys are turned on because they dream of a threesome with a lesbian couple or stuff like that.

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    • Which is absurd irrational thinking. Why don't they dream of having three somes with 2 guys? They'd actually have a chance as opposed to a real lesbian who obviously is a lesbian because she doesn't like men.

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    • It still doesn't make sense when a girl is with a female because that's her sexual preference & their would be no way on earth that she'd want a man to join otherwise she would be dating a guy.
      Its like this- There's two gay guys in a relationship. Who would they choose to join them if they were wanting a threesome? Obviously another guy because they're gay.

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  • Justmehere

    Probably because one is always super-hot and the other a butch. One of my female friends is the super-hot one, a former model, perfect body, huge..bulging tits that she shows off in tight and low-cut shirts, very long nails, and very made-up. She's fkn gorgeous and guys pant after her. Until they find out, she prefers women.

    Her last, and, current gf's are pure, look like guys you don't want to meet in an alley, butch. Hunched-over walking, wife-beater shirts, short if any hair. Would never put my hot friend with any of them. Hell, I've told her several times, if you weren't a lesbian, I'd jump the hell out of you. It's still hot sometimes watching them mess around.

    There's also the thrill of having one get the other's clothes off. I moved them to a new place, and loved seeing butch woman play around with, bend over and kiss, and tug the shirt down of my hot friend. I kept thinking..Do it..Tear her shirt off. I'm moving you for free. Least you can give me is hot chick topless.

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    • Guys pant because they're dogs at the end of the day, have 0 respect towards a female and treat her like a sex object. Have you thought that just maybe that's why some females turn gay? They don't want a bar of this disgusting behavior.
      Secondly, those lesbian chicks you've described give lezzies a bad outlook because its not about showing off but intimacy should be done in private, not to please a mutt

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      • nosklafidu

        Radical feminism is a mental illness.

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        • Being a horn crazed prick driven by animalistic urges is in fact the mental illness. Get your facts right -_-
          Smh

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          • nosklafiduEKIK

            "Facts"?!! A LYING DYKE CUNT BITCH like YOU knows only LIES and MISANDRY!! Smashing your fucking skull into BLOODY PULP would be a GREAT PLEASURE!! THAT'S how men should handle you misandrist dykes!! By BEATING, BURNING JAILING and SHOOTING!! DEATH to radical feminism!! KILL IT DEAD!!!

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            • charli.m

              Was that your impression of a sane person?

              No one bought it.

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            • nosklafiduEKIK

              And speaking of "facts" you dyke bitch - why don't you tell everyone here about lesbo "relationships" having a HIGHER RATE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE then heterosexual relationships! Those fat butch bulldyke beasts enjoy looking and acting like caricatures of men but the male sense of self-control regarding women is foreign to those subhuman beasts!

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      • Justmehere

        I agree, and, to be honest, when the butch woman was all over my hot friend, it was tough to watch until got used to it. Mostly because, as I stated..My friend was the way-hot one, and the partner really was scary-looking. Almost felt like the butch was attacking the hottie.

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  • GeordieGent

    Yeah I've always wondered that too. I am heterosexual but have never understood that fantasy I must admit because a Lesbian would be off limits to a heterosexual man.

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    • Murun

      They're not necessarily off-limits. Women are more fluid about sexuality than men. That goes for lesbians as much as straight women.

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    • Thank you- Finally some one has a brain ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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      • Murun

        Their brain unfortunately can't comprehend a lesbian fucking a man occasionally.

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  • Orphan

    They think its hot only if it's for their own personal enjoyment. If lesbians reject sexual advances from men these same men get aggressive

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  • bimbobamboo

    men (including me) like watching lesbian porn usually because its purely women. fr example, watching a girl give a blowjob is not very arousing as she is sucking a dick, and dicks dont give normal men boners. in lesbian porn, one girl licks the other's pussy. thats enticing since a pussy turns men on, straight ones at least.

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  • UnicornGirl22

    They think that if there gay they will have intercourse with them. But TBH lesibian are girls that like girls. I feel yah. I really don't know either. I'm just telling you what I know about.

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  • bfus

    Does this offend you for some reason?

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  • BobbertA

    Well I'll look at it from a porn prospective, I would rather see two beautiful woman getting it on then a man and a woman. I kinda dislike seeing another dudes dick.

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    • But why? You have a dick ? So you should be able to watch straight porn as easily as lesbian porn.

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      • See, men can't handle their own fucking slug looking cocks, so why would you think lesbians would want anything to do with it.
        Go and have a cry as you obviously can't handle the truth.

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  • nosklafiduEKIK

    @ wigz - Lesboism is UNDESERVING of male respect. Pieces of misandrist shit like julie bindel and clementine ford deserve male hatred and contempt!!

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    • Males in general are undeserving of female respect- And that's a definite under statement.

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      • nosklafiduEKIK

        Shut the fuck up lesbo cunt bitch!! With President Trump, we'll see the DEATH of your SICK, DISGUSTING UGLY DYKE FEMINISM!!

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        • Aww go and have a cry and dry your bitch tears :)
          Hahahaha wow, touchy much ! Hit a sore point I see ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  • bidicksucker69

    I've always loved both bisexual boys and girls and so does my girlfriend we both love dick and pussy equally

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    • Xaxyxlue23

      Have you ever shared a cock with your girl?

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  • nosklafiduEKIK

    In it's defective lesbo pea brain, the OP can only imagine men lusting over lesbo queers. What the OP cannot imagine is some men DO NOT lust over feminist dykes - but only HATE THEIR FUCKING GUTS and would LOVE to see feminist dykes EXTERMINATED from this planet Earth! And for that matter, everywhere else in the entire universe as well!

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    • As a matter of fact, some woman (Actually a lot come to think of it), hate guys fucking guts! They should all fuking be wiped off this earth for they are animals with throbbing cocks who fuck anything in their way. Some are so pathetic, and weak that they can't even control themselves to the point where they rape an innocent women or even a child. This is how low men are in general and don't deserve to be here. Full FUCKING STOP.

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  • nosklafiduEKIK

    Heterosexual men should HATE feminist dykes just as a black man should hate the KKK. Or a white man should hate BLM. Why? Because feminist dykes are the ENEMY!

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  • nosklafiduEKIK

    Some guys don't want to fuck you dykes - you're far too UGLY for that. Why are so many of you so ugly and fat? You're unnatural FREAKS with PENIS ENVY!! You fat ugly dykes should be butchered for pet food to be sold in the Third World.

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    • "Some guys don't want to fuck you dykes" then why the fuck do they fantasize about fucking a lesbian/having a threesome? Honestly, a guy would fuck anything including an animal.

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    • That just makes me laugh! Honestly!! You're so oblivious xDD There are literally hundreds of attractive, feminine looking lesbians.
      That's a fact as I was very surprised when I joined dating sites. Your comment means nothing, coming from an animalistic predator such as yourself. Your penis should be chopped off. You are the FREAK at the end of the day, you think with your cock, not your pea shaped brain. Ha :p

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