Is it normal i know i will always be in love with my first love

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I fell in love with a girl i was hooking up with for 5 months. we agreed in advance not to get serious and she ended it at the end of the school year- i wanted to continue things. she is kind, compassionate, intellegent, thoughtful, and loves life and the world around her as much as anyone ive ever met. its almost a year and i dont love her any less, not even a little. she has had a more profound affect on me and the person i want to become than anyone else ive ever met. even when i feel happy, or when i try to be as objective and sensible as possible about my feelings, i truly believe i will love her forever and that theres not much i can do about it- not just in the "she will always have a piece of my heart" type of thng- but really be totally in love with her, even when im an old man (im 21 now). I want to be over her, and i genuinely try to approach other girls with an open mind- but i still have made no ground in getting rid of any of my feelings for her, and i cant envision ever gettng to a point where im over her. is it normal to feel this way, and could i be right? please comment if uve gone through this

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  • myownopinions
    11 years ago | pl

    If you don't always see her, then at one point or another, you will start to forget things about her until she really does only have "a piece of your heart".

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  • Leviathanel
    10 years ago | pl

    love is such a powerful affliction. sometimes i relate it to some sort of nasty psychological diagnosis. but you must realise something, love is tangable, although filled with passion there is nothing magical about it.

    it's nothing but a force of nature which causes some of our species to be monogomous. i have been in love many times over my period of lifetime and i often think back on my past loves.

    i guess i'm not really over them all either. some of those women were truely wonderful and i constantly wonder to myself what could of would of happened.

    but the truth remains. it's just a feeling. i have to be strong and forget about the people who abandoned me. i have nothing to prove to them and only to myself.

    Love; the conquorer of hearts. set it's sights on us. but i promise you this fight hurts worse if you surrender.

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  • Mmmpfh
    11 years ago | pl

    I was with my first love for two and a half years. It's been years since I've seen her and I still think about her everyday. I think this is totally normal.

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