Is it normal i know i'll be jealous & hurt if she gets a partner

I don't know what I'm meant to do...
I've become really close with my cousin ..she's become like a best friend and I love her very much. Im worried of loosing her one day & i am worried about being attached but I feel its too late because I always want to see her & we do and talk all the time. If she gets a bf I know I'll be really hurt & feel excluded. I don't know how to not feel invested but I can't help it. I've been ditched before & I really don't want to be hurt again. I even get upset when she talks about potential partners e.c.t ...is it normal & what do I do?

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67% Normal
Based on 6 votes (4 yes)
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  • Anapassion

    hmmmm already attached get over it its incest

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    • Get over it, its incest?
      Firstly, its easier said than done to just simply "get over it".
      Secondly, its not incest

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      • JonathanOo

        You'll need to let her know how you feel then. Otherwise there will be someone else and very soon. You might end up alone if you don't find someone for yourself too

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        • I doubt it'll be very soon...She isn't one to jump into anything like majority of chicks these days.

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  • RoseIsabella

    If you really love her you will have to get over it.

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    • Get over it huh?
      If only you were me, you'd realize its not as easy as "just get over it".

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  • RoseIsabella

    Honey child, it ain't never that easy to get over it, but it's what we all have to do sometimes. I know it ain't easy, believe me I know it ain't easy.

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