Is it normal i keep falling out with my friend?

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I've known my friend for a year and a month and we've already had so many falling outs. And it's really all due to me, honestly. We just fell out again yesterday.

The main problem is I want to talk all the time. But at the same time, I'm afraid I'm bothering him. I'm mad because he doesn't have enough time for me. Or rather I feel he does, but rather spend it on other things. I get mad when I find out he's talking to other people. I often feel he's ignoring me and I get pissed. This is the reason we fell out again. I saw the message marked read but he never replied. I sent a message telling him how that made me feel then cut contact.

I feel like he doesn't care about me or my feelings. I feel he doesn't even like me, but he swears he does.

I want to talk to him right now, but I think he doesn't even miss me or anything so I stop myself from messaging.

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  • jupitergirl
    3 years ago

    Listen. I have recently been resentful towards a friend because she was not supporting me in the way I wanted. I had to learn that it’s not her job to support me, make me happy, or feel loved. It’s a blessing when someone in this world does do that for you, and you make sure you cherish it, but don’t chase people. They don’t owe you. It’s completely ok that your friend needs space. It’s not saying they love you any less. It’s just what they need for themselves. Everyone operates differently. Maybe find some more friends to make up for the time when they need their space. Move with love. It’s not all about you!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    3 years ago

    You seem a bit clingy.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    Fucking lingerer, man.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    You are not the least bit normal.

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  • sissycakes
    3 years ago

    Basically sometimes technical issues will make it to where someone cannot respond or else maybe they got sidetracked or where asked to do something else. Sometimes a person just has no idea what to say. Men are less into talking than women most of the time. I bet he still cares for you.

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