IIN I have no idea how true romantic love feels?

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  • bigpicture
    8 years ago | pl

    Most people are more in love with the idea of being in love than they could be with any other person.

    Which is why they "fall for" the wrong people all the time -- they're overeager to be in love.

    "In love" is mostly just nonsense -- that's why you don't know it. It mostly doesn't exist, other than the romanticization of relationships (ie. being "in love") there's no such thing.

    Most people in human history met their life partners through arranged marriages, and did just fine... "Loved" each other just fine... So that should tell you something about the nature of being "in love".

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    • reminiscent
      8 years ago | pl

      Arranged marriage can cause a lot of problems...as why its mostly frowned upon now...also had more room for abuse.

      There is such a thing as being in love... and to just discount all the people that are in love is wrong ...just because you havent experienced it or had a bad relationship with someone you thought you loved.
      you can love domeone and be in a relationship with someone who doesnt love you the same way... this causes problems...but your love wasnt false.

      I will agree some do rush into relationships ...chasing after love. And thats not good ether.
      but I assure you I am truly in love with my bf and he is in love with me. As we will spend our lives together until we are old and die.

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