Have you tried talking to him about it? Maybe you need to tell/show him what you like, but whatever you say - don't be too harsh and critical!
My mom says there are two things you should never criticize about a man: the way he drives and the way he is in bed.
What works much better is complimenting and encouraging them. Maybe he's a little insecure, so show him and guide him. If he tries, he can only improve. However, if he's not prepared to make more effort, then that doesn't bode well for your relationship as a whole, as it could well be a sign of selfishness.
IIN I have a lazy lover
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Have you tried talking to him about it? Maybe you need to tell/show him what you like, but whatever you say - don't be too harsh and critical!
My mom says there are two things you should never criticize about a man: the way he drives and the way he is in bed.
What works much better is complimenting and encouraging them. Maybe he's a little insecure, so show him and guide him. If he tries, he can only improve. However, if he's not prepared to make more effort, then that doesn't bode well for your relationship as a whole, as it could well be a sign of selfishness.