Is it normal i have a crush on a man twice my age?

I think it's normal, I'm your age and it's common for me to have crushes on men in their 20's and 30's, I think it's because they're more experience and sexy ;)

You dirty girl, you.

I think you need to find someone else. People with such huge age gaps usually don't work out for a reason.

What you should do is bring up the subject of his wife cheating and find out if he ever thought about cheating and if he says once or something. That will be easier but if not, idk then wait for an oppourtunity where your off work and you can be alone and then slowly get really close to him and seduce him slowly.

how did you find out about his wife's infidelity? SOmething tells me that if he was the one that told you that it might be false and he could be the horn dog, by the way he treats you like a piece of meat, being so much older than you (most guys his age wouldn't date a 19 year old). He seems like a big horn dog. I would say, even if he's sexy and your'e attracted to him, don't sleep with him! IF you make him wait he'll respect you more and plus you have to work with this guy. It'll work out best for you if you wait at least.

I think it is pretty normal. In some parts of world it is mandatory to have the husband of older than at least 8 to 10 years. And being in 30's it is not that much older in any sense. There are many examples of happy and joyful couples despite having great age gap. I am not saying that you should marry him or initiate the relationship but do not give priority to his age while taking any firm decision. As his wife is cheater; consider him single.

your maturity level is about the same as my 12 yr old niece. if u do carry on with a married man, u with just be the booty call on the side while u have to put up with him being with his wife (&kids). youll b missing him knowing he's fucking her & cant say shit bcuz u accepted it that way.

Why should I be happy that he is 41? But your first two words tell me that you are obviously talking to someone else.

I'd read carefully what cupcake_wants said.

Twice your age would be 38.

Funny I just posted something about my bf being 20 years older. I like the fact he's old enough to be my dad haha. Best relationship I've ever had. So yes, I think its normal to think about him.

what a great story of love and romance, brings a tear to my eye

I once had relations with a woman 10 years older than me. It was not really too different than any other kind of relationship it sucked equally as much as if the person were in my age group.