If you took from this that I am "pressing people to come out" you have not read my post. And saying "or whatever" only gives me more confidence you didn't pay attention.
My post is in regards to heterosexual users that worry their behavior may be construed as 'gay' under the pretense there is something wrong with being gay. Please never begin correspondence with a person with the words "At the end of the day, you don't know anything" again.
Lol, I will begin correspondence with any words I please. Also, no, you clearly are establishing a norm for people to label themselves while we're still figuring it all out and new labels emerge every day. I just don't understand why you would waste so much energy enticing people to come out as gay. We don't even know what being gay means EXACTLY. I experimented girl on girl sex during my teenage years and I liked it - obviously a girl giving me pleasure, how could I not? - yet I still identify as straight because I never remotely felt attraction for another woman nor wanted to construct a serious relationship with one. Sexuality is complex. You can play with people and yet not wanting anything serious with them. Being gay is being FULLY gay, that is to say having and emotional, sexual and physical connection with a person of the same-sex. Attraction alone is not enough, you might just be attracted to yourself or your own physique, or be narcissistic. I have a PhD in Gender Studies and all of those assumptions everyone is making are an attempt to the credibility of the gay community. Fooling around is not being gay. Gay is much more than sex!
Thank you Kellie. Now if you'll excuse me I need to speak with my refrigerator as I would like to have a more productive conversation. By the way congratulations on your gender studies PhD. Your intelligence and kindness has impressed us all.
IIN I hate the question, does this make me gay?
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I don't see where you thought I would disagree with you. But nice anger
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You are, since you are pressing people to come out or whatever.
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If you took from this that I am "pressing people to come out" you have not read my post. And saying "or whatever" only gives me more confidence you didn't pay attention.
My post is in regards to heterosexual users that worry their behavior may be construed as 'gay' under the pretense there is something wrong with being gay. Please never begin correspondence with a person with the words "At the end of the day, you don't know anything" again.
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Lol, I will begin correspondence with any words I please. Also, no, you clearly are establishing a norm for people to label themselves while we're still figuring it all out and new labels emerge every day. I just don't understand why you would waste so much energy enticing people to come out as gay. We don't even know what being gay means EXACTLY. I experimented girl on girl sex during my teenage years and I liked it - obviously a girl giving me pleasure, how could I not? - yet I still identify as straight because I never remotely felt attraction for another woman nor wanted to construct a serious relationship with one. Sexuality is complex. You can play with people and yet not wanting anything serious with them. Being gay is being FULLY gay, that is to say having and emotional, sexual and physical connection with a person of the same-sex. Attraction alone is not enough, you might just be attracted to yourself or your own physique, or be narcissistic. I have a PhD in Gender Studies and all of those assumptions everyone is making are an attempt to the credibility of the gay community. Fooling around is not being gay. Gay is much more than sex!
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I would advise reading people's posts before responding.
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In that case, maybe you should read your own posts
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Thank you Kellie. Now if you'll excuse me I need to speak with my refrigerator as I would like to have a more productive conversation. By the way congratulations on your gender studies PhD. Your intelligence and kindness has impressed us all.