Is it normal i hate someone so much that i love them?

I have this with a friend of mine (you've might of seen me post about him before). Our relationship is a bit rough. Mainly because of me. I keep ending our relationship then coming back. I have mixed feelings about him.

As the title says, I hate him and I love him. I hate him because I feel he treats me badly (ignoring me for example) and that he doesn't really like me. On the other hand, I really like him. Nay, love him. I have romantic feelings for him. He doesn't return them but that's okay.

I have lashed out at him a couple of times then immediately regretted it and begged him to forgive me. It's like I hated him but couldn't stand losing him. The more I feel he dislikes me, the more I love and want to be around him. Yet at the same time I am angry and hurt.

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  • ellnell

    Yeah, hate is the closest feeling to love because they're both intense emotions. If you really didn't care about a person you'd be indifferent to them. Hate can always flip over to love and vice versa.

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  • RoseIsabella

    No bueno, you need to leave this dude, forget about him and move on with your life, girl!

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  • --

    seems to be the theme, treat a bitch like shit and they hang to you like a leech. Treat them nice and respectfully and they think you are a looser with no balls.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=d8ekz_CSBVg

    Cry-scream to this whilst you delete him on social media.

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