Is it normal i hate people who have lots of kids?

I can't stand people who just keep making babies. They walk around with their 8 kids, the oldest of which is probably 8 years old, and expect the entire world to accomodate and worship them because of their irresponsibility. I cant even get on the train without some moron cluttering the aisles up with their baby strollers and nasty puking kids. Do normal people feel this way?

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  • Nickvey

    some assholes deserve to die alone with the house smelling like dog or cat shit for the last 30 years. they know who they are , i dont have to tell them . That be like saying hey did you know you are fat.

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    • Zorak

      Put down the peace pipe.

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  • charli.m

    Where do you live that you see this?

    Even when I was living in a Jewish Orthodox community, 4+ children wasn't the norm.

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    • shuggy-chan

      I think there is probably an irresponsible element too it.

      Like alot of time you see alot of kids like that, the parents don't seem responsible enough to take care of them self, let alone all those kids.

      Like having 4+ kids living in a double wide trailer, and shit like that.

      I think that's what the OP is referring to

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      • EccentricWeird

        Wrong stereotype. It's more like a starving Nigerian mom is pushing out #9 or #10 and living off our food aid.

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        • alienslayer

          I'm dying ๐Ÿ˜‚

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      • No, it has nothing to do with who pays for the kids or anything, or even if they get fed at all. I don't care about that. I just get frustrated trying to go places and do things and having to navigate around these people with a whole hoard of dirty annoying children running all over the place. And the parents don't see anything wrong with inconveniencing others like this, because "they're only kids and I wanted to have a big family so everyone needs to accomodate me"

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  • insanebotv21

    Kids are disgusting but your hate is slightly excessive and based on a warped perception of mothers rather than reality.

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    • How? I see this all the time, these idiots who were too dumb to use condoms and now have a whole brood of little screaming infants. Taking up the sidewalk with their strollers and acting like everyone should help and tolerate them because of the children. You can't control 8 tiny babies at once, so they shouldn't have that many.

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      • insanebotv21

        Not every kid is a result of retarded parents and failed birth control. Some people want a lot of kids. You can't "control" children, they're human beings with free will however gross and obnoxious they are.
        No one is assuming anything here except for you. You've assumed that their intent when having kids is to become an impediment to you.

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        • Kevinevan

          Actually you assumed OP has a warped perception.

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          • insanebotv21

            So? I didn't assume i perceived how he speaks about them and assumed he was honest in that speech.

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            • Kevinevan

              So...you assumed it's "warped" because you obviously disagree however not everything you disagree with is warped. I think OP is spot on and not irrational in thinking that other people kids are a pain.

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        • Im saying that people who want a lot of kids don't have the right to expect to be treated differently or as if they're "special" for that reason. If you have a lot of kids, it's your responsibility to make sure you don't inconvenience other people. You don't get to block subway doors and cause problems for everyone else who doesn't care that your baby is sleeping.

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          • Kevinevan

            Exactly OP. I agree 100% that people with kids generally expect us to accomodate their children. It's wrong. If your kid needs to sleep stay home. Stop blocking the aisle and for god sake don't go out shopping with a gaggle of screaming children.

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            • Yeah this is exactly what i mean. Its the whole dragging all the kids around to every function. If you want to go skating at midnight and you have a bunch of kids you either find a babysitter or dont go skating / to the laundromat late at night.

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            • insanebotv21

              Yeah but they also need to live life... They can't just stay home all the time because they have kids. And they're probably annoyed by the little shits just as much as you are.

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          • insanebotv21

            I don't think that anyone should get special treatment either. And yes, it is annoying as hell when children are in the way. But it's not always the parents fault.

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            • Kevinevan

              Who's responsible if not the parents? They had yhe child, they teach and raise the child and they take the child out in public. Of course it's their fault.

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            • It's the parents fault for making the kids. If they do it on purpose it's even worse. And these people think they deserve special parking spaces because they reproduced?

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      • suckonthis9

        Forget condoms. Condoms are not a reliable method of birth control.
        How about if the father had have made an appointment with his physician, and had requested a vasectomy, after the second pregnancy?
        Only about 1 in 2,000 vasectomies are unsuccessful.

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        • SmokeEverything

          you are correct, honestly the best method is pulling out.

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          • Kevinevan

            Yes pulling out and only fucking during full moons is the best way to avoid pregnancy ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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          • EccentricWeird

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            Panel 4: USING A CANDY BAR WRAPPER

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          • Pseodonihm

            LOL

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        • Zorak

          Reported. :)

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    I've begun to feel disdain for people with lots of kids myself. I won't blanket judge anyone with a lot of children, but my current work situation is making me bitter.

    Stuck in a situation where there is obvious favoritism to people with children. I'm a manager, so we already have much higher expectations on us. That's fine, many of our part timers are younger - we have several cashiers who are still in school. I'm an adult and can handle the extra responsibility.

    But the extra weight on you if you don't have kids... I am guaranteed to work every holiday, wheras they try to give anyone with kids those days off. If I need to miss work because of health problems... I'm "irresponsible". I need to get a surgery soon and was told "schedule it for your off days you'll be fine." I just got written up for missing some work due to said health problems (endometriosis pain so bad some days I couldn't walk). But our old CEM could be late every day on any given week and never got written up because "she has kids, she needs to take care of them".

    Well how about GET A RELIABLE BABY SITTER OR MAYBE DONT HAVE 4 KIDS BEFORE YOURE 30 JESUS CHRIST. Ugh.

    So, I feel you. No you shouldn't get special accomodations over people who have other shit going on in their lives who don't get that same treatment. Feels like I'm being punished for being responsible and not having children I can't take care of...

    Sorry for the rant, you definitely struck a nerve with me on this one. :P

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    • Youve got it right here. Not necessarily that i automatically judge people with a big family but picture this: you want to go do laundry so you go at 11pm when the place should be empty, and now this lady comes in and turns her 7 young children loose while she washes a hundred pairs of clothes. You cant say anything because shes such a martyr to the world already for taking care of all these kids that she had through her own decision making. Obviously she cant watch all them and wash clothes at the same time, and youre the bad guy if you say she shouldve left them home

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  • ilovemybabies

    Ok, having 8 kids obviously is weird but i don't think i have ever met anyone with more than 5. And as a single mother of 3 boys i never asked "special treatment" from anyone. Some people are being helpful because they are kind. If you don't like having kids that is your opinion but some of us do and we are proud of it.

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  • fluffy1uv

    I have disdain for them for the same reasons, however "hate" is a bit excessive and not very normal I would say. It should take a bit more for you to hate someone. However a lot of people hate gays just for being themselves so I don't know.

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  • kwikbix

    No it's not normal if they keep their family together. This whole small family thing is a very recent development. I can understand if you don't like it when it's some fat nigress single mom who fucks around and gives birth every 9 months so she can get welfare for the 11 kids she had with 6 "baby daddies", but besides clearly disgusting cases like that it's normal. In fact this whole small family thing is a massive issue because now modern countries have to deal with birthrates that are below replacement levels. The way you speak of this I doubt that you're complaining about welfare moms. All I can say is enjoy being alone in a retirement home when you're old.

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    • Family is a fallback for people who have no friends so they have to hang out with idiot babies

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  • bogbrush

    I don't mind as long as they are paying to bring them up. Why should I go out to work and pay taxes to support other people's kids. I didn't have them because I could never afford to. There are many in the UK who just have kids to get a bigger house and more benefits.

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  • Yobrepaid

    My only objection to large families is when people have lots of kids only because it's what their religion encourages them to do (Mormons are famous for this because they want the world to get populated with more Mormons) or because their religion (e.g. Catholics) advocates against the use of birth control.

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    • My jewish coworker says its a thing in hassidic commununities too, they're supposed to repopulate the earth so they have as many children as possible, then who gets to help them push all those strollers on the train

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