Haha, did you get a clear answer?
Was discussing this with someone the other day. When exactly does a turn on become a fetish?
They thought it may possibly be when you need that thing in order to get off but I disagree
Something that isn't sexual in itself. Like you couldnt have a fetish for boobs or dicks coz thats just normal. The fetish is when a non sexual thing becomes sexual.
And you can't get off without whatever it is, it has to be a bit more than just liking or enjoying something, to be a fetish it must essential for that person to get off sexually
If it's something that's not sexual in itself, but you can't get off without it, that's a fetish: for example, leather or high heels or just about anything
IIN I hate it when so many idiots misuse the word "Fetish"?
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Haha, did you get a clear answer?
Was discussing this with someone the other day. When exactly does a turn on become a fetish?
They thought it may possibly be when you need that thing in order to get off but I disagree
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It is to do with something that is a part of or connected to the main thing e.g. Having a fetish for women's feet, or a man's hands, or shoes.
I didn't get a detailed enough answer, about 2 people responded to that post and I took It down.
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Something that isn't sexual in itself. Like you couldnt have a fetish for boobs or dicks coz thats just normal. The fetish is when a non sexual thing becomes sexual.
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This.
And is there an element of the fetish being the *only* thing that gets the person aroused, or is that something different? I forget.
Edit: Oh duh...derp already said that in a different way. I'm a tard today.
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If it were the only thing it would be weird maybe pathological. We all have fetishes, they're normal. I think.
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Yeah. I think I may be thinking about a disorder and confusing it.
Well...we all have preferences and interests. Not necessarily fetishes. But youre right, having a fetish can be a normal thing.
And you can't get off without whatever it is, it has to be a bit more than just liking or enjoying something, to be a fetish it must essential for that person to get off sexually
If it's something that's not sexual in itself, but you can't get off without it, that's a fetish: for example, leather or high heels or just about anything