I feel like that counts as semi-moved out, you have your privacy and support yourself but at the same time if you wanted to move elsewhere would that be a problem? Would you be able to sell just your side of the house without your parents having to move (genuine question -maybe you can)?
I feel her concerns were not that you are unstable or dependent but that you may be “tied down” and that your parents may play a bigger role in your life than she wanted them to. Basically it sounds like you aren’t compatible with her.
Don’t let one woman’s opinion get you down, to many people a close relationship with your family will be seen as a good thing and if they have no plans of leaving your area the fact that you may be “tied down” won’t be an issue.
Thanks for the awesome reply! I can indeed sell my half and move elsewhere if I want to, it can however be a bit harder to sell than a normal stand alone house. Stand alone houses here are about 350-400k euro for similar size as my half. Usually double houses like this one are sold to people who want to live close to their folks or people who want an extra half to rent out. In my particular case I decided to go for a double as the long term plan is to buy out my folk’s half within 10 years when I have more money. 👍
The location is awesome too as it’s right in the center of the capital.
IIN I got dumped for living in a double house with my parents?
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I feel like that counts as semi-moved out, you have your privacy and support yourself but at the same time if you wanted to move elsewhere would that be a problem? Would you be able to sell just your side of the house without your parents having to move (genuine question -maybe you can)?
I feel her concerns were not that you are unstable or dependent but that you may be “tied down” and that your parents may play a bigger role in your life than she wanted them to. Basically it sounds like you aren’t compatible with her.
Don’t let one woman’s opinion get you down, to many people a close relationship with your family will be seen as a good thing and if they have no plans of leaving your area the fact that you may be “tied down” won’t be an issue.
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Thanks for the awesome reply! I can indeed sell my half and move elsewhere if I want to, it can however be a bit harder to sell than a normal stand alone house. Stand alone houses here are about 350-400k euro for similar size as my half. Usually double houses like this one are sold to people who want to live close to their folks or people who want an extra half to rent out. In my particular case I decided to go for a double as the long term plan is to buy out my folk’s half within 10 years when I have more money. 👍
The location is awesome too as it’s right in the center of the capital.
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Sounds like a great set up and plan to me, I’m sure you’ll find someone who’s on the same page as you.