For some people, being demisexual doesn't mean that you feel that way for both genders. I personally am, so I don't really know how that feels, but for me I like both genders and seem to like them truly only if I've talked to them, known them...
At one point this summer I went camping with my friend, and I already knew she was straight as hell, but I still was attracted to her. It was a difficult thing to get over, but eventually (with much work and struggle), I did.
Early this year, I ended up liking this pansexual girl that was dating a guy... but it's a step in the right direction, I guess..
Well, back to my original point, you don't have to be demisexual toward both genders. To even identify as demi, you have to be demisexual toward one gender, not both. You may feel that you are demi toward only women, but you feel differently about men. This is completely normal, and you shouldn't feel bad about this whatsoever. Just be you, and don't forget who you are, either.
Feel free to contact me on my account, I'd love to talk to you more about this.
I'm sorry to hear it didn't eventuate into anything with your crushes. I can empathize & know its very very difficult to move on! Only way I did it was cutting the girl I was once friends with out of my love. To this day, I think of her from time to time but hardly much anymore. At the end of the day, we can't help who we fall for, whether they're straight, gay, bi e.ct...We just hope that one its mutual & we get to be in a loving relationship with a person which we couldn't imagine living without.
I'd love to converse more but I don't have any gold so I can't private message you...
IIN I go along with pretending I'm straight ?
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For some people, being demisexual doesn't mean that you feel that way for both genders. I personally am, so I don't really know how that feels, but for me I like both genders and seem to like them truly only if I've talked to them, known them...
At one point this summer I went camping with my friend, and I already knew she was straight as hell, but I still was attracted to her. It was a difficult thing to get over, but eventually (with much work and struggle), I did.
Early this year, I ended up liking this pansexual girl that was dating a guy... but it's a step in the right direction, I guess..
Well, back to my original point, you don't have to be demisexual toward both genders. To even identify as demi, you have to be demisexual toward one gender, not both. You may feel that you are demi toward only women, but you feel differently about men. This is completely normal, and you shouldn't feel bad about this whatsoever. Just be you, and don't forget who you are, either.
Feel free to contact me on my account, I'd love to talk to you more about this.
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Hey again :)
I'm sorry to hear it didn't eventuate into anything with your crushes. I can empathize & know its very very difficult to move on! Only way I did it was cutting the girl I was once friends with out of my love. To this day, I think of her from time to time but hardly much anymore. At the end of the day, we can't help who we fall for, whether they're straight, gay, bi e.ct...We just hope that one its mutual & we get to be in a loving relationship with a person which we couldn't imagine living without.
I'd love to converse more but I don't have any gold so I can't private message you...