Is it normal i get turned off when my bf talks about sex?

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So, my boyfriend and I got together recently. I'm sexually attracted to him and do get aroused when thinking about us having sex, but when he mentions it I get embarrassed and if I had been aroused I am immediately turned off. I'm still a virgin.

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  • xXThatonechickXx
    7 years ago

    Yes it's normal. It's nerves

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  • youngkitten
    7 years ago

    If you're young then I understand. That could be the only way..

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    • ShilohKB
      7 years ago

      Yes I'm pretty young, not even 20.

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      • youngkitten
        7 years ago

        You'll get used to it honey. Sexual attraction is normal in a relationship and intimacy does a lot. Is it that you're only turned off by him and other things turn you on? Like girls or something? Or you're turned off from sex completely ?

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    How old are you?

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    • ShilohKB
      7 years ago

      Under 20.

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        You sound like your in middle school.

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        • ShilohKB
          7 years ago

          I'm not. Second year of hs.

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          • mysistersshadow
            7 years ago

            Your not old enough to be on this site.

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  • FORUMiadableFucker0
    7 years ago

    So you like sex and you like him as a person but not enough to have sex with him. Don't make mistakes. Wait and see if you like him and the embarrassment goes away or keep it the way it is until you find a new guy/girl you actually like a lot and not just "to be with someone".

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    • ShilohKB
      7 years ago

      Yeah. I was always willing to try things with my ex girlfriend but we werent together long enough (unrelated reasons .

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