Is it normal i get bored of every relationship?

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I let my relationships last 2-4 years, then I dump the guy and move on, I've been doing this since high school. I find the idea of being with the same guy forever just boring. I'm wondering if it's just me or not because all my friends say they want to be with their boyfriend forever, I do fall in love but I already know that feeling will '' die '' and I'll eventually want to try something new.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    You're normal, because monogamy isn't for everyone. However, you might have an attachment disorder of some kind, not because you get bored, but because you feel relationships are all doomed to fail at some point.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Actually, it's because I can be in love today and totally uninterested tomorrow, that's why my relationships don't last too long, not because I feel relationships are all doomed to fail, I know people who have been with the same partner for decades so I know it's possible, but I have no idea how to do that.

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago

    You need to be the driving force of excitement in your life, not your boyfriend. Everything from avoiding boredom to self-validation comes from you doing things first and foremost.

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  • Handyman
    6 years ago

    You sound like a boring person, maybe you are the problem.

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