Is it normal i get anxiety around attractive men and women

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I don't have emotional connection with men only women so I consider myself a lesbian yet some times I'll see th odd cute guy and my headt races or I'll feel anxiety attack ugh.

Today I was served by a rlly cute guy who was probably aged between 18 to 22!
I'm 26f
Anyhow, I could tell her was very nervous and his hand was shaky, cute! I think maybe he found me attractive but hes so young plus I'm old now as opposed to him being prob 18 ish haha
He was very mature and friendly, but I also felt anxiety attack come on and felt uncomfortable for his anxiety too.

I guess I find some guys attractive but dont have that emotional connection

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Based on 14 votes (11 yes)
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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    Normal.

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  • LagumLemoni
    3 years ago

    Men and women were biologically designed to go together, so, by definition, this is not normal. Attraction to someone without emotional ties is totally normal

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Btw some people are bi and some are lesbian, some even pans. Grow up

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Bruh it IS normal to feel attraction but no emotional connection!! Not only for some it takes time to develop and emotional connection but also the fact that some like myself are on the ace/asexual spectrum. I have to develop a bond usually first and foremost before I can feel the urge to want to date and be with them. I still find pple of both genders attractive and I have emotional connection with women as they're not dick thinkers. Men dont feel an emotional connection

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    3 years ago

    Awe

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  • CelticDarkMoon
    3 years ago

    I think this a very normal emotion , I’m 38 and I still get very similar reactions to attractive women .
    My wife is 22 and beautiful and it took me nearly 6 months before I asked her out . maybe the age gap put me off for awhile but she is seriously beautiful and every time I saw her I nearly had a panic attack .

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    3 years ago

    people livin life on easy mode are the worst

    especially when they think they can just walk up and manipucharm you just because theyre useda gittin away with it

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