You seem to have a stereotype in your head of how gay men should act: surely if you're gay yourself you must realise many (maybe most?) gay men don't fit that stereotype and why the fuck should they? Why should anyone have to fit any stereotype?
No, there's a difference between being naturally masculine and "straight acting". It's a phenomenon among the gay male community if you look it up. A "straight acting" gay man is not naturally masculine, he's someone who deliberately and consciously plays up stereotypical alpha-male behaviour to be better accepted by society and to be seen as more attractive... and then bash feminine gay men.
I have nothing against naturally masculine gay men, they do exist in large numbers, it wasn't my point to say they didn't. I'm sorry if that's how I came across. I just prefer it when gay men be themselves, whether naturally masculine or feminine, instead of having this kind of "culture cringe" where they deliberately bash openly gay people who are comfortable in themselves.
IIN I find gay men hot?
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You seem to have a stereotype in your head of how gay men should act: surely if you're gay yourself you must realise many (maybe most?) gay men don't fit that stereotype and why the fuck should they? Why should anyone have to fit any stereotype?
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No, there's a difference between being naturally masculine and "straight acting". It's a phenomenon among the gay male community if you look it up. A "straight acting" gay man is not naturally masculine, he's someone who deliberately and consciously plays up stereotypical alpha-male behaviour to be better accepted by society and to be seen as more attractive... and then bash feminine gay men.
I have nothing against naturally masculine gay men, they do exist in large numbers, it wasn't my point to say they didn't. I'm sorry if that's how I came across. I just prefer it when gay men be themselves, whether naturally masculine or feminine, instead of having this kind of "culture cringe" where they deliberately bash openly gay people who are comfortable in themselves.