Couldn't have said it better. There's no need to rush into having a family at 19. You're probably only a few months older than myself and I'm only just considering things like family. Not now of course, but I wouldn't mind having kids further down the road in life, when I'm ready and not because I feel behind for not doing so right now
And let's just face it, as mean as this comment may come off as (for that I apologize in advance) if you feel behind for your age, you probably shouldn't have kids anyway. I have a friend with high functioning autism and while she's excellent at some things, others she does not excel in. You just have to figure out what you're good at and build on that. You're not going to get far comparing your life to others and I'm only just a few months younger than you yet I still ask my mum for help/advice too! A lot of young adults do it and there's no shame in asking for help when its needed. You must keep in mind that all the things you can do some other people don't even know how to do that. There's no point in alienating yourself for it, or blaming your mother when as far as I'm concerned, this is perfectly normal thing for young adults to go through
IIN I feel very behind?
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Couldn't have said it better. There's no need to rush into having a family at 19. You're probably only a few months older than myself and I'm only just considering things like family. Not now of course, but I wouldn't mind having kids further down the road in life, when I'm ready and not because I feel behind for not doing so right now
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And let's just face it, as mean as this comment may come off as (for that I apologize in advance) if you feel behind for your age, you probably shouldn't have kids anyway. I have a friend with high functioning autism and while she's excellent at some things, others she does not excel in. You just have to figure out what you're good at and build on that. You're not going to get far comparing your life to others and I'm only just a few months younger than you yet I still ask my mum for help/advice too! A lot of young adults do it and there's no shame in asking for help when its needed. You must keep in mind that all the things you can do some other people don't even know how to do that. There's no point in alienating yourself for it, or blaming your mother when as far as I'm concerned, this is perfectly normal thing for young adults to go through
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You’re comment didn’t come off as mean at all! It was actually quite helpful!