EXACTLY THIS. Everyone I know who had kids at a very young age like this has struggled because of it. Not that it can't be done, but it's usually a much harder road than waiting until you have a steady career, financial situation, and are mentally ready for it. It is much better to build a career and be completely ready mentally and financially as well before having kids.
Definitely enjoy your life and remember that it's not a race or competition! Do things at your own pace and when you're ready, and don't be pressured into anything.
I know of someone that had a kid at a ridiculous age like 20. Not sure if they wanted the kid or it was an accident. It just seems so bizarre to me. This dude is a party animal and it pains me to see him play gangsta rap to an impressionable infant. The kid is already a phone addict. Clearly he should've waited. Anyway at least the girlfriend seems loyal.
I for one would only think of having a kid once I'm financially stable and find the right partner.
IIN I feel very behind?
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EXACTLY THIS. Everyone I know who had kids at a very young age like this has struggled because of it. Not that it can't be done, but it's usually a much harder road than waiting until you have a steady career, financial situation, and are mentally ready for it. It is much better to build a career and be completely ready mentally and financially as well before having kids.
Definitely enjoy your life and remember that it's not a race or competition! Do things at your own pace and when you're ready, and don't be pressured into anything.
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I know of someone that had a kid at a ridiculous age like 20. Not sure if they wanted the kid or it was an accident. It just seems so bizarre to me. This dude is a party animal and it pains me to see him play gangsta rap to an impressionable infant. The kid is already a phone addict. Clearly he should've waited. Anyway at least the girlfriend seems loyal.
I for one would only think of having a kid once I'm financially stable and find the right partner.