Is it normal i feel used when he doesn't respond after reading my message?

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So, I have a mail tracker on my email, I use it for both business and personal so I want to make sure people receive my messages. I've been in one or two relationships where I was used just for attention. I started flirting with this guy, he gave me his email and he always takes longer than a few days to respond to my emails. I figured he was just busy so I turned on the mail tracker on my last email to him, he read it 6 times last night and hasn't looked at again since he still hasn't responded. I just want a healthy relationship that doesn't consist of these silly ignore-them-to-keep-them-interested games. I feel used and confused. Idk whether to get mad and stand up for myself or just tell him how I feel.

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago | pl

    It's interesting that you said you were in 1-2 relationships where you were used for attention, but attention is exactly what you're demanding from this guy.

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    • Sluts
      6 years ago | pl

      That's basically how all women behave to varying degrees. Some like extensive attention, while others are okay with less. But they all seek it out.

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      • Ellenna
        6 years ago | pl

        Don't you mean humans?

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        • Sluts
          6 years ago | pl

          Most humans do like attention, it's hard wired in our psyche. Women seek it out through feminine wiles, while men just do natural stuff.

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  • Cookiecutter
    6 years ago | pl

    Considering what you have said this isn't a healthy relationship just for the fact that you are obsessing over weather or not he read the email and why he has not answered instead of asking him maybe dont be a creep and just talk to them instead.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago | pl

    It's probably not helping you that you're keeping tabs on how many times he reads your email.

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  • Murun
    6 years ago | pl

    He's probably jutst thinking about the answer for a while before answering. That's quite normal.

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  • herpesfreesince93
    6 years ago | pl

    Maybe he tried to reply to you each of those 6 times but his pesky wife kept walking in on him and he had to tell her that he was playing Solitaire.

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