Is it normal i feel so ugly because i'm pale!

I feel so ugly because I'm pale. I'm tall, Dirty blonde hair & Light blue eyes. I like boys who are super tan with dark brown hair & eyes. Everyone always calls me a "Vampire" because I'm very pale. I've done so many things to try to fix it. Spray tans, laying out, tanning beds everything! I find it embarrassing and I'm very insecure about the way I look. I've had boyfriends & many people (including boys) have told me I'm cute but that doesn't help. Do pale people look ugly? What do you think? Are we unattractive?

Is It Normal?
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  • I'll agree with the comment above me. you sound gorgeous

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  • Ignore them and be proud of your winter skin!

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  • Pale skin is far better than tanned skin. And vampires are awesome.

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  • Silly! That's how dead people are SUPPOSED to feel! :)

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  • STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF YOU DIRTY PALE BITCH

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  • Well i absolutely love pale men, only thing that can turn me on, theyre exotic to me, me being a caramel girl with full lips and dark brown eyes. But i see pale women as boring and not very feminine

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  • You sound nice to me.

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  • Keep slim, dress well,wear nice perfume, keep positive and develop your sense of humour, let your worries about tanned skin or similar drop away. The reallity is a happy feminine women is very attractive to men, you dont have to have all the boxes ticked.

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  • You feel ugly because you have nice, white skin? Um......why?

    And you know, it's interesting - if you were Black and people criticized your skin color, that would be considered nothing short of racist.

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  • I'm very pale skinned, and I love it! Who or what makes you think that your ugly because you have pale skin. Also excessive tanning is not a good thing for anyone. I don't know about you but I actually get a sunburn after being out in the sun for 30 minutes. Also, tanning ages your skin and can cause skin cancer.

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  • You sound extremely attractive.

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