Disagreeing with you is not shaming you. In fact, I agreed with you that you should feel good about your choices. More power to you if you know what you want and choose it -- as long as you don't use those choices as a bludgeon to beat other people down and make them feel bad for their decisions.
I would say the same thing if you'd had lots of relationships and were shaming someone for being a virgin, by the way. People should be kinder to one another and more understanding of their choices, not using them as reasons to make others feel small.
I don't use it against other people. In fact, I never talk about it unless I know the other person or the conversation really calls for it. Like this, I just wanted to let the OP know they aren't alone. I 'unno.
IIN I feel people makes fun of me because I am sexually inexperienced?
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Disagreeing with you is not shaming you. In fact, I agreed with you that you should feel good about your choices. More power to you if you know what you want and choose it -- as long as you don't use those choices as a bludgeon to beat other people down and make them feel bad for their decisions.
I would say the same thing if you'd had lots of relationships and were shaming someone for being a virgin, by the way. People should be kinder to one another and more understanding of their choices, not using them as reasons to make others feel small.
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I don't use it against other people. In fact, I never talk about it unless I know the other person or the conversation really calls for it. Like this, I just wanted to let the OP know they aren't alone. I 'unno.