Why would you assume that people who have had sex feel like shitheads when they hear you haven't? Do you feel superior to others because you chose to wear a red shirt the other day or because you decided to go swimming while other people went hiking?
It's just different choices. You should feel great with your choice, but so should they. Please don't shame other people for choosing sex.
Disagreeing with you is not shaming you. In fact, I agreed with you that you should feel good about your choices. More power to you if you know what you want and choose it -- as long as you don't use those choices as a bludgeon to beat other people down and make them feel bad for their decisions.
I would say the same thing if you'd had lots of relationships and were shaming someone for being a virgin, by the way. People should be kinder to one another and more understanding of their choices, not using them as reasons to make others feel small.
I don't use it against other people. In fact, I never talk about it unless I know the other person or the conversation really calls for it. Like this, I just wanted to let the OP know they aren't alone. I 'unno.
And let's not shame others for NOT choosing sex... Where do we draw the line anyways? This just shows that we really are ... Not much diff than the animals; if it is not your belief that your are not an animal.
IIN I feel people makes fun of me because I am sexually inexperienced?
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Why would you assume that people who have had sex feel like shitheads when they hear you haven't? Do you feel superior to others because you chose to wear a red shirt the other day or because you decided to go swimming while other people went hiking?
It's just different choices. You should feel great with your choice, but so should they. Please don't shame other people for choosing sex.
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Disagreeing with you is not shaming you. In fact, I agreed with you that you should feel good about your choices. More power to you if you know what you want and choose it -- as long as you don't use those choices as a bludgeon to beat other people down and make them feel bad for their decisions.
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I don't use it against other people. In fact, I never talk about it unless I know the other person or the conversation really calls for it. Like this, I just wanted to let the OP know they aren't alone. I 'unno.
nice metaphor.
just kidding.
And let's not shame others for NOT choosing sex... Where do we draw the line anyways? This just shows that we really are ... Not much diff than the animals; if it is not your belief that your are not an animal.