It's not unhealthy, I'm just a few years younger and I'm a virgin AND I feel great. Don't feel bad. Please. Don't let anyone trick you into having the sexi-sex with you because you're 25 and lalllalalalla. Life isn't all about sex. Don't dwell too much on it. I don't mind being a virgin 'cause people who have been with like, 20 other people feel like such shitheads when they hear that I've been with no one. That's normally what irks on most of the making-fun-of. Insecurity.
Whatever. I don't know. Good luck.
Why would you assume that people who have had sex feel like shitheads when they hear you haven't? Do you feel superior to others because you chose to wear a red shirt the other day or because you decided to go swimming while other people went hiking?
It's just different choices. You should feel great with your choice, but so should they. Please don't shame other people for choosing sex.
Disagreeing with you is not shaming you. In fact, I agreed with you that you should feel good about your choices. More power to you if you know what you want and choose it -- as long as you don't use those choices as a bludgeon to beat other people down and make them feel bad for their decisions.
I would say the same thing if you'd had lots of relationships and were shaming someone for being a virgin, by the way. People should be kinder to one another and more understanding of their choices, not using them as reasons to make others feel small.
I don't use it against other people. In fact, I never talk about it unless I know the other person or the conversation really calls for it. Like this, I just wanted to let the OP know they aren't alone. I 'unno.
And let's not shame others for NOT choosing sex... Where do we draw the line anyways? This just shows that we really are ... Not much diff than the animals; if it is not your belief that your are not an animal.
I have been with a lot of people and in no way do I feel like a 'shithead' when someone around me speaks out that they are a virgin.
Because I don't regret having sex with a lot of people. It was fun, I didn't harm anyone in the process, and no harm was caused to me.
People like me make the choice to become extremely sexually active. People like you make the choice to be virgins. We are in no way better than one another. I have never felt jealousy towards a virgin because I love my choice! I have never felt like a shithead. And I promise you, when I am on my death bed, I still will not feel like a shithead for sleeping around and not keeping my virginity.
Someone who has slept with 20 people doesn't make them a bad person. Being a virgin does not make you a bad person. Our worth in this world is not dependent on our sex lives.
Okay, I've seen your other replies to other people...and I am not going to argue with you because you seem like just another asshole on the internet. I -Promise- you, I will not reply to your next response.
I think your idea of an "asshole" may be warped. The only comments I have made in the past couple of days consist of declaring my love for other members, declaring my love for potatos and vaginas. I'm far from an asshole.
IIN I feel people makes fun of me because I am sexually inexperienced?
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It's not unhealthy, I'm just a few years younger and I'm a virgin AND I feel great. Don't feel bad. Please. Don't let anyone trick you into having the sexi-sex with you because you're 25 and lalllalalalla. Life isn't all about sex. Don't dwell too much on it. I don't mind being a virgin 'cause people who have been with like, 20 other people feel like such shitheads when they hear that I've been with no one. That's normally what irks on most of the making-fun-of. Insecurity.
Whatever. I don't know. Good luck.
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Why would you assume that people who have had sex feel like shitheads when they hear you haven't? Do you feel superior to others because you chose to wear a red shirt the other day or because you decided to go swimming while other people went hiking?
It's just different choices. You should feel great with your choice, but so should they. Please don't shame other people for choosing sex.
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Then don't shame me.
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Disagreeing with you is not shaming you. In fact, I agreed with you that you should feel good about your choices. More power to you if you know what you want and choose it -- as long as you don't use those choices as a bludgeon to beat other people down and make them feel bad for their decisions.
I would say the same thing if you'd had lots of relationships and were shaming someone for being a virgin, by the way. People should be kinder to one another and more understanding of their choices, not using them as reasons to make others feel small.
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I don't use it against other people. In fact, I never talk about it unless I know the other person or the conversation really calls for it. Like this, I just wanted to let the OP know they aren't alone. I 'unno.
nice metaphor.
just kidding.
And let's not shame others for NOT choosing sex... Where do we draw the line anyways? This just shows that we really are ... Not much diff than the animals; if it is not your belief that your are not an animal.
I have been with a lot of people and in no way do I feel like a 'shithead' when someone around me speaks out that they are a virgin.
Because I don't regret having sex with a lot of people. It was fun, I didn't harm anyone in the process, and no harm was caused to me.
People like me make the choice to become extremely sexually active. People like you make the choice to be virgins. We are in no way better than one another. I have never felt jealousy towards a virgin because I love my choice! I have never felt like a shithead. And I promise you, when I am on my death bed, I still will not feel like a shithead for sleeping around and not keeping my virginity.
Someone who has slept with 20 people doesn't make them a bad person. Being a virgin does not make you a bad person. Our worth in this world is not dependent on our sex lives.
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Okay, I've seen your other replies to other people...and I am not going to argue with you because you seem like just another asshole on the internet. I -Promise- you, I will not reply to your next response.
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I think your idea of an "asshole" may be warped. The only comments I have made in the past couple of days consist of declaring my love for other members, declaring my love for potatos and vaginas. I'm far from an asshole.
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Yep, definitely an asshole.